Without Being Religious

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By Bobby Neal Winters

I've just finished reading an old book, copyright 1965, entitled "How to Become a Bishop without being Religious." The book is funny, but most of the humor has a point to it as it satirizes "churchy" types.

The author, Charles Merrill Smith, himself a Methodist Minister, makes a distinction in the book between religion and piety. Religion can be an actual detriment to a clergyman's career, according to Smith, because it can make him do things that his flock might find embarrassing. On the other hand piety, which for Smith means a certain preacherly way of acting, is much more popular with a congregation because preachers are expected to act, well, preacherly.

The book does not hit far enough from the truth to be as funny to me as it might be. It looks to me like things have somehow gotten turned around opposite of what they ought to be. The congregation tells the minister how to act rather than the other way around, which is somehow uncomfortable. These days we have grown to think that it is arrogant than any one man might know a better way to live, and indeed, many would disdain that there is a right way to live. It is ironic that in these times where freedom of speech is prized and used as a means to defend such things as pornography, we would shout down those who think there is a more moral way to live. We want our preachers to dress a certain way, to act a certain way, but God forbid they suggest we live a certain way.

I suppose that it ties in with the notion of sin. I've made the discovery that people don't even like the word "sin." It makes them bristle. They get a hard expression on their faces and sit just looking at you. I suppose that I shouldn't stare at them when I say it.

On the other hand, they don't mind the word "mistake." You can say, "Everybody makes mistakes," and heads will nod in agreement, but you can say, "Everybody sins," and suddenly you are getting the hard looks, again. I find that odd, because what is a sin except a certain type of mistake. However, behind it is the idea that God has a certain Way he wants things to be, and our actions miss it.

The Apostle Paul draws a lot of fire because at one point he writes to a congregation, "Do as I do." This is taken as arrogance by some because Christians are not supposed to model themselves on Paul, after all, but on Jesus. It is Jesus who is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life" not Paul. However, if we limit ourselves too strictly here, we are doomed. If we don't believe that Jesus was available through Paul, mere decades after the crucifixion, how can he be available today after millennia? Paul had the temerity to say that he had found a better way to live, Christ's Way, and wanted to show it to people. How dare he.

Preacher's today believe the same thing. They have heard a message they believe is true, is right, is better, and they desire to repeat it. This is made difficult by a handicap; they are human. Human beings sin, and if you sin yourself while warning others against it, then you're called a hypocrite. Is there anything worse?

Somehow it is better not to believe there is a better way of doing things than to believe there is a better way, and not be able to achieve it. If we thought about athletics this way, we would never even try to shoot a basket, we would never try to throw a pass, and we would never swing a bat.

I suppose that what we need to keep in mind is it's not about the man; it's about the message. The message is more important than the messenger. If we found a good message in a bottle, it doesn't matter if that bottle is a little cracked.
 
The man is the message.

Okie writes:

I suppose that what we need to keep in mind is it's not about the man; it's about the message. The message is more important than the messenger. If we found a good message in a bottle, it doesn't matter if that bottle is a little cracked.

First, you must remember, Okie, "Lives there no message not sent by man".* Maybe what you should mean is that it is not the brand of the sound player but the message in the sound played, and that message comes from a man.

Second, no message is ever taken seriously from the messenger but from its author. So, it is a fallacy to distinguish between the message and the messenger, the distinction is between the word of a man and the man himself or his character. In this sense, the man is the message.

"Not the messenger but the message", the cliche is meaningful only if by messenger you mean the original author of the message. In which case, as I am trying to show, the man or the author is the message.

If you don't know the author and you can't decide on the merits of the message; then don't bother with the message at all. At most ask someone who can judge the message on its merits even without knowing the author.

Or: If you read the message and can't make sense of it, and it is important to you to make sense of it, for example the message tells you to jump out the window to save yourself, then knowing the author is crucially important.

If you know the author then you can jump right away owing to the trustworthy character of the author. Otherwise, not knowing the author, don't jump unless and until you discover the merits of the message to jump -- or ask someone more knowledgeable: like get your cellphone and call up the fire fighters squad to talk to any fireman in the scene.

"Not the message but the messenger" is one cliche not different from "The good shepherd loves his flock", or "Everyone dies". You must beware of good shepherds, any shepherds whatever, at the end of the day they lead their flocks to the slaughter house. Derive no consolation from the fact that everyone dies: Life is in the living of, not in the dying of; so, go get a life.

Susma Rio Sep

*From the "Apophthegmata of Susma".
 
Cliches become cliches often because they are true. One should not stop speaking the truth lest the world be filled only with lies.
 
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okieinexile said:
Cliches become cliches often because they are true. One should not stop speaking the truth lest the world be filled only with lies.

Of course.

My point is that an unworthy messenger has no business delivering a good message in regard to moralism. More apropos, we should not accept and we should not allow people to be teachers or judges of moralistic and juristic matters who are themselves not practicing the moralistic and juristic values they are advocating and even supervising. The only thing they succeed in doing is to advance hypocrisy, breeding thereby dishonesty in society.

The world is filled with lies because unworthy messengers go around insisting on their sacrosanct office of delivering messages, but callously on their official possession of the office continuing with their unsavory character and life.

Susma Rio Sep
 
Susma Rio Sep said:
Of course.

My point is that an unworthy messenger has no business delivering a good message in regard to moralism. More apropos, we should not accept and we should not allow people to be teachers or judges of moralistic and juristic matters who are themselves not practicing the moralistic and juristic values they are advocating and even supervising. The only thing they succeed in doing is to advance hypocrisy, breeding thereby dishonesty in society.

The world is filled with lies because unworthy messengers go around insisting on their sacrosanct office of delivering messages, but callously on their official possession of the office continuing with their unsavory character and life.

Susma Rio Sep

So I understand you to say that it is better that the message of love be left unsaid rather than come out of the mouth of one who does not always practice love. Is that correct?
 
okieinexile said:
what is a sin except a certain type of mistake.

Now there's something worth quoting. :)

Sometimes the word "sin" becomes such a heavy-laden term - next time I encounter the word I'm going to re-approach it fresh with your own definition. I somehow suspect it will take something of the weight from the sense of accusation the word seems to ordinarily encapsulate. :)
 
Self education

okieinexile said:
So I understand you to say that it is better that the message of love be left unsaid rather than come out of the mouth of one who does not always practice love. Is that correct?

If we can see the distinction between the message and the messenger so that the messenger is not living worthily his message, then we really don't need the messenger in the first place: the message being already meritorious on itself as we can see for ourselves, and therefore we can dispense with the messenger who is just supernumerary scalawag. Let us not bear such rascals to lord over us.

Susma says: You have a mind from God, teach thyself.

If you need a 'message' in any situation, think systematically on experience and facts and the best ideals of human behavior and interactions and self-management, and you will have the best 'message' from and for yourself.


Susma Rio Sep
 
Essence of sin

I said:
Now there's something worth quoting. :)

Sometimes the word "sin" becomes such a heavy-laden term - next time I encounter the word I'm going to re-approach it fresh with your own definition. I somehow suspect it will take something of the weight from the sense of accusation the word seems to ordinarily encapsulate. :)

Sin is essentially an act of not giving to another be it God or man what is his due. Everything else is an error of ignorance or a wrong choice from passion.

Susma Rio SEp
 
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