I am glad we are not asked to like them! The rest I can handle...
Love means no strings attached, it is unconditional. When one Loves there can not be any hypocrisy attached.
Much is offered in the Baha'i Writings as to how we are to Love, here are a couple of thoughts.
"Ye have heard that it hath been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor, and thou shalt not vex thine enemy with enmity.' But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for He maketh His sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth down the rain of His mercy on the just and on the unjust." ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, The Secret of Divine Civilization, p. 81
Abdul'baha also offered this.
"...Love is heaven's kindly light, the Holy Spirit's eternal breath that vivifieth the human soul. Love is the cause of God's revelation unto man, the vital bond inherent, in accordance with the divine creation, in the realities of things. Love is the one means that ensureth true felicity both in this world and the next. Love is the light that guideth in darkness, the living link that uniteth God with man, that assureth the progress of every illumined soul. Love is the most great law that ruleth this mighty and heavenly cycle, the unique power that bindeth together the divers elements of this material world, the supreme magnetic force that directeth the movements of the spheres in the celestial realms. Love revealeth with unfailing and limitless power the mysteries latent in the universe. Love is the spirit of life unto the adorned body of mankind, the establisher of true civilization in this mortal world, and the shedder of imperishable glory upon every high-aiming race and nation." ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, p. 27
This is exactly how Abdul'baha lived his life, his life was left as an example for all humanity to look at, follow and be as.
Regards Tony