amica,
1) absolutely not. it's just more *practical* and more detailed. the one doesn't really make sense without the other.
2) you need to be very, very careful where this stuff is from. there are a lot of outright lies online about the talmud, because it is written in aramaic and most people aren't in a position to argue. this site:
The Real Truth About The Talmud
was set up specifically to combat these kinds of lies. please, please, go read the pages on the following:
Talmud and Bible
The Talmud Does Not Permit Sex With A Three Year Old
Gentiles
if you want to come back with questions after reading these, please feel free to do so.
my question to you is, who the hell is telling you these lies? why do you suppose they are doing so?
b'shalom
bananabrain