How about the people around them? If an enlightened being doesn't suffer from any unresolved issues, their unenlightened companions still get to bear the consequences, I imagine.
If a person has not yet achieved enlightenment, and also has unresolved emotional issues, having an enlightened person around them isn’t going to change anything. The unenlightened person still has to resolve their emotional issues and then go through the process of becoming enlightened.
What are your thoughts on the topic of "enlightened beings with a personality disorder"? Can this happen? If not, what prevents it?
There are two meanings for the word enlightened.
(1) The meaning as it is used in everyday conversation is; someone who suddenly perceives a cause-and-effect understanding of a phenomenon in life. Having an “aha” moment. Having an “epiphany”.
(2) The meaning as it is used in some Buddhist traditions to mean a raising of a person’s consciousness to a level higher than a human being is capable of, followed by a testing of the person to ensure they can now stop incarnating on the human level, and successfully become conscious at the next level of consciousness above the human level.
It must be pointed out that some Buddhist traditions such as Japanese Zen Buddhism see enlightenment as (1) not (2).
In answer to your question, type (2) requires all personality disorders be resolved before enlightenment is possible. (Any personality disorders discovered during the pre-enlightenment testing will show the person is not ready for enlightenment, and raising their consciousness to a nirvanic level of conscious would be a disaster.)
…if the sufferer stays "earthbound"; that is to say, is not able to progress beyond his/her earthly reality.
In my understanding of enlightenment, the person no longer suffers, so such a possibility does not need to be considered.
…is not able to progress beyond his/her earthly reality
Enlightenment, by its very definition, allows a person to progress beyond his/her earthly reality.
This person, however, would be incredibly tormented and torn between the two worlds.
In my understanding of enlightenment, no such dilemma exists. (But it must be mentioned there are disagreements between people who qualify for enlightenment and then go on to nirvana, as opposed to people who qualify for enlightenment but then decide not to go on to nirvana but stay here on this physical Earth instead.) It should also be mentioned that some Buddhist traditions teach the idea of the total extinction of a person when they die, which actually refers to achieving enlightenment. Enlightenment is the total extinction of
the lower aspects of a person's personality. Enlightenment is not the extinction of
the higher aspects of a person's personality, it is a time when a person is now able to use their higher aspects much more efficiently.
He/she would probably long for that love…
I do not think such longing is even possible for an enlightened person.
He/she would need lots (and lots) of love from his/her Beloved one
That is not how I see enlightenment.
…enlightened to some degree…
I do not see someone achieving enlightenment to a ‘partial degree’. I see it as an all-or-nothing condition.
It is a Buddhist belief in some schools that an enlightened person must ordain within a short period after their enlightenment, or else they die...
I would say an enlightened person is already ‘ordained’. If a Buddhist tradition teaches such a belief, I would not want to be a member of that particular Buddhist tradition. (It is amazing how much the various Buddhist traditions disagree in their teachings.) However, in defense of such a teaching, I agree that, when a person achieves enlightenment, they must decide whether to enter nirvana at the end of their present incarnation, or instead remain on this physical world for at least one more physical incarnation.
I agree. The definition of enlightenment contains the idea of permanently rising above any desire for power, money, sex, etc. In my opinion, any person with an ego-driven need for power, money, sex, etc. would automatically fail the test for enlightenment.
I sometimes wonder whether the retreat into monasteries or some other reclusive lifestyle so often observed in enlightened persons is not a way to avoid facing unresolved personal issues around power, sex, or money...
Of course some people do so for such reasons. I am reminded of Sister Maria (Julie Andrews) in the 1960’s movie
Sound of Music who does this exact thing. Mother Superior has Maria leave the convent for this very reason. Retreating to and hiding in a monastery or convent does not resolve personality ‘issues’, it can actually delay enlightenment.