Mental hang-ups and physical emergencies.
No, pain and suffering are not the same...
Pain is inevitable, suffering is how you respond.
"clinging to a concept of self"
Yes, but there is not a single self within mind, it is constantly changing... here I have called the identification with suffering the sufferer.
Each of us plays many roles in our lives, each of these are vastly different, we become compartmentalized psychologically... this is often warranted, we cannot act the same with our boss as we do our best friend - at least ordinarily.
So, while in many ways it is practical, we must be mindful that all of these are dependent on us, they are not us.
Try saying that when you are 24 hours into hard childbirth labor and your mind dissociates from the body!
Is this so this moment?
It is something that happened and has passed...
I do not mean to demean the event, I am sure this was traumatic.
I only mean to emphasize that something that was there in this experience has come unchanging to this moment.
This is what is already awake in you.
These stories are your dream.
Social conventions, laws... lots of things.
We desire to uphold some image of ourselves, and thus hold back our true selves.
All the more reason to use this life as an opportunity to grow and EVOLVE!
What you actually are cannot grow or evolve...
The point of dialogs that go to this depth is to release you from this whole mindset...
To let you finally be what you were intended to be.
Don't get me wrong, I am not suggesting changes will not come, they must, because change is the only evidence of the unchanging.
I try to be aware of and appreciate of my thoughts. I am not the one who is discounting the miracle of sentience.
Sentience is not your capacity to think.
Sentience is your capacity to know... including knowing thought.
I am not even suggesting thought is bad, I have to think to type.
I am merely trying to loosen your identification with mind.
It is a strange situation, can you imagine if you thought you were your hand?
Yet the mind is just another tool.
Keep on dreaming, then, what dreams may come.
Are you not the one dreaming, thinking that truth is somewhere other than here?
There is no where else, how can awakening happen there?