In my case, if you've tracked my biography dotted across this forum, I met my beloved when we were both members of an 'esoteric society'/'cult' in the 70s.
At some point she became aware of my cradle Catholic heritage, she said she knew there was 'something going on'. Hers was a middle class alternative/arts background, so, so different from my working class conservative Catholic upbringing.
When we left what had by then become a cult (btw, 40 years later we are the only couple we know to have remained together) she was jaded by the discreet misogyny of an organisation that regarded itself as 'chivalrous' but was actually promoting a male ideal of the feminine. But my disillusion left me with a hunger for something, so I took to Platonism and, quite by chance (or was it?) stumbled upon the Sophia Perennis and thence back to what many I suppose many would assume to be hard-core traditional Catholicism.
My beloved, being a 'no faith' agnostic, free-thinking, feminist campaigner for social justice, had 'issues' (to say the least) with institutional Catholicism, but never stood in my way on my way back to the faith of my birth. I dallied with Soto Zen for a bit, but it was never really going to get off the ground, even though she told me: "You're more Buddhist than you care to admit." It was her idea I do a degree in Catholic theology, and she supported/suffered me through a very time-intensive five-year programme, which meant Glastonbury without me ...
All the above as background as to why, when kids came along, it seemed clear to me that to raise them Catholic, something I would have to insist on as it was not her religion of choice by any stretch, would place a perhaps intolerable strain on the relationship.
We did look at Catholic junior school, but she found the emphasis on discipline (the reason why so many non-Cats want their kids educated in cat schools) and the presence of a crucifix in every room, oppressive. (We have Greek icons at home, focussing on transfiguration rather than crucifixion.)
Anyway ...
Long story short, our kids have not been raised in any tradition, but hopefully to love their neighbour. Our youngest has come to mass with me, and she did theology and philosophy at university, although her thesis was on Buddhism, she steered away from Christianity!
So my kids have not been raised in any faith, but they understand and defend me in mine, which I think is as much as I might ask for.
As for the rest, I have spoken to the Boss. I have explained we come as a package deal ...
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As an aside, from where I stand I would say the idea of an education in all traditions equally is a bit of a nonsense. You can either do one, or none. You can touch on morals and ethics, which is usually as far as the 'everything' goes, but that falls far short of what the religion is about, and you'll never do an adequate job of the rest, and end up just serving all of them equally badly.
