Churchgoing as a mainly social activity.What if the real benefit is not a belief in a higher power?
There are lots of folks who pray alone to a higher power they actually believe in. There are lots of Catholics who go to mass to receive the eucharist, without stopping to natter and socialise. Christian monasticism was founded by the desert fathers who retired into the desert as hermits.
Carthusian monks live in solitary cells in their monasteries and wake at midnight to go together to the unheated church in winter and pray for three hours, but without talking to each other. They eat once a day alone in their cells and do not ever talk to each other, except once a week when those who choose to can join a communal walk and chat in pairs, but changing partners every fifteen minutes.
There are solitary hermits and mystics of most religions. The mythical Lao Tsu, who wrote down the eighty-eight sayings of the Tao te Ching on bamboo strips, was by legend a solitary wandering sage. Solitary hermits and mystics are a feature of Hinduism and Buddhism.
In the sermon on the mount Christ said:
But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
Matt 6:6
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