Thankyou for the comments, FaithfulServant, but I do think you make a fundamental error and base everything else around it.
You cannot have read my nearly 200 postings here very carefully.
FAITH is to be treasured for what it is, an affective response based in the affecftive nature and nurture of an individual.
FAITH concerns, as your definitions illustrate perfectly well, that we are dealing here with self-validated affective concepts that individuals affirm; or even proselytise.
If FAITH had proofs in the objective, material and cognitive domain beyond self, there in fact would be no necessity for the term FAITH, for it would be amenable to external verification/validation beyond yourself.
This means no one can disprove a personally validated FAITH.
If anyone attempts to do so, they are doomed to failure... there is no necessity for anyone to disprove a personally validated FAITH. Everyone in my opinion has a perfect right to believe whatever they believe.
I do NOT challenge people's FAITHS. - how could I, having such a FAITH myself!
All I ask is that they do not accept their own validations blindly and underdstand the personal affective nature of FAITH!
I challenge 'blind' FAITH that is proselytised as universal truth, and always will do so, just as Professor Flew has for a lifetime, especially with regard to organised 'Churches' and monotheistic religions that proselytise 'universal truth' concepts beyond self-affirmation.
I absolutely have no objection to someone believing their FAITH represents absolute truth. That is upto them.
All I ask is that THEY challenge their own personal validations, in reason.
You seem to suggest, in addition, that there is something strange or special about my wife and I.
The fact is that after many years I observe in my friends and colleagues exactly the same kind of behaviours.
Love and trust are pre-eminent in relationships and they are dependent themselves upon reason and honesty and should never be allowed to dominate affectively in the face of rationality and objectivity. We can indeed all feel jealous, and nothing is ever achieved by such an affective response given free reign. One needs to sit down and talk it all through... in reason... reasonably! lol
Anyone singularly unable, as demonstrated by behaviours, to distinguish between Love and Lust, is doomed to be jealous and less than humane towards their partners who deserve every respect for putting up with us, warts and all, and failings!
This all begins with honesty about oneself and having a sound(honest) self-image.
Those who expect perfection should certainly never get married.
True partnerships are not dependent upon vows or even legal marriage within any social or religious context, they are dependent upon understanding of the term 'partnership' of a deep and intimate longterm kind... friendship and love and all that truly means between one human being and another.