Once again I come to this thread.........................this time as some sort of refugee from another forum where a thread I was involved in began to become far to "heavy" for me to endure. Anyway, I just wish to offer a quote, from the words of the Trappist monk Thomas Merton in his "Note to the Reader" from his book "The Way of Chuang Tzu".
It seems relevant to this thread.
"...............the way (of Chuang Tzu)...is characteristic of a certain mentality found everywhere in the world, a certain taste for simplicity, for humilty, self-effacement, silence, and in general a refusal to take seriously the aggressivity, the ambition, the push, and the self-importance which one must display in order to get along in society. This other is a 'way' that prefers not to get anywhere in the world, or even in the field of some supposedly spiritual attainment....................For Chuang Tzu, as for the Gospel, to lose one's life is to save it, and to seek to save it for one's own sake is to lose it. There is an affirmation of the world that is nothing but ruin and loss. There is a renunciation of the world that finds and saves man in his own home..........In any event, the 'way' of Chuang Tzu is mysterious because it is so simple that it can get along without being a way at all. Least of all is it a 'way out'. Chuang Tzu would have agreed with St John of the Cross, that you enter upon this kind of way when you leave all ways and, in some sense, get lost"
Anyway, sorry I am not offering at the moment anything from personal experience. But I do recognise here the gentle and kind way that people of various paths seek to encourage each other.
Thank you.
Derek