Arif,
I am originally from Bosnia. I am a Sunni Muslim, just like majority of Bosnian Muslims are. All my life I have known Islam as a peaceful faith. Never in my life have I heard any imam that my family came in contact with to call people to hate others. Their message was always to love our faith and respect others'. One of the imams in my home town actually had a Catholic priest as his best friend.
What happaned after the Bosnian bloodshed in 1990s is that Wahabis somehow reached through to Bosnia. Even though they have not received large following at all, there is tiny groups. Recently, on the bosnian news (I watch over the satellite) there has been incidents of the Wahabis attacking some Bosnians verbally and physically for 'not practicing' Islam 'the right way.' The incidents took place in mosques and surrounding the mosques. This is very strange to us Bosnian Muslims to see even some Bosnians be so radicalized and something majority of us Bosnian Muslims very much detest.
What does it matter how one is positioned in prayer or what kind of hand movements he/she may make? Aren't we praying to One God only? Will He ask us about how I held my hands while praying or will He be asking me about what I was thinking in my prayers, what I did before my prayers, what did I do after my prayers, was I sincere enough, will I be better Muslim after each of my prayer to grow in my faith?
No. Somehow Whahabism makes Islam seem like a jailtime cult where everything is strict, 90% of human behaviors are forbidden, that God 'is a very angry ' Being that 'smites' everything for 'everything.' It is too focused on God's punishments and less emphasizes God's Mercy. God Himself, SWT, told us that His Mercy is faster than His punishment. Although the punishments are no less easier, but the Grace is so huge! Whahabism preaches fear and no hope. The way they represent Islam makes me want to cry and I can only imagine the fear a Whahabi Muslim must feel on a daily basis by engaging in simple actions that he/she may perceive as threatening to salvation.
There needs to be a universal Muslim conference to discuss Whahabism and what it does to Muslim Ummah. Not only is it angry with the whole world, not only is it intolerant of anyone who differs from Whahabi ways (including Muslims) but it is destroying Muslim Ummah.