Now now this whole ex thing...and I guess the stupid thing in general...
There is that thought.
"We always do the best with the knowledge we currently have."
For every single stupid thing, every ex, every ignorant thing...it is all hindsight today. But while we were there, in that moment, we summed up all our knowledge, all our experience, all our wisdom, and made a decision. We did that thing, we loved that person, we married'em, slept with em, whatever they were our other half...and...
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
So while we look back on our decisions then, we must be aware that we are currently doing things now that we will look back at differently in the future, but the reality is...that was all we had then to offer...and this is all we have now....relish it, respect it, it is us. And those ex'es...they were what we needed at that moment...and however we grew apart and whatever lessons we learned...they played a role, a role we asked them to come into our lives and play....
I think we should have fun with our stupid things...but with gratitude!
peace and blessings...