But, hey, like I have stated before, if you read my initial post: "most of us Jews who are observant, will not be on our computers on Shabbat". Now, does this particular statement read as: "ALL of us observant Jews will not be in here on Shabbat" or does this statement read as, "most of us who are observant?"
And the problem I have is with your use of the word "most." It is only a segment of the observant Jewish population. And as I said previously, there are many who do not use your yardstick to measure their level of observance, and outside of it there are many who are observant without following the same rules, or following them in the same way you do. It is not by any means general principles for the totality of Judaism to say "This isn't what we do." It's not what you and your community do.
Are you measuring me, with your yardstick? waiting for me to "slip up" perhaps
Not at all. I am simply making sure that Judaism is represented in a way that speaks to its diversity, all of the colors and flavors, rather than one that focuses on one particular type of Judaism. If you had said "many Jews" I would not have said anything, but "most" implies something else.
dauer, tush and fie mate, play nicely or i'll put you in herem.
lol. Okay I understand all of that except that UK-ese. Looking it up though... Okay, no help from google. What's tush and fie mean?
i think the two of you are at cross-purposes. susanna is saying "observant" in the sense of what observant behaviour traditionally looks like, whereas dauer is saying "observant" in terms of the kavannah or inner intention, whereas it may be that to the unsophisticated observer the halakhah is being violated.
Actually, you're a little off on my motivation. I am speaking to all of the beautiful shomer shabbos folk who don't accept halachah, or don't accept halachah on Orthodoxy's terms, for example the Reform Jew who likes to listen to music on Shabbat, or the Conservative Jew who likes to drive, or folks who play stringed instruments on Shabbos, in shul (I've even seen a stringed instrument in a Conservative shul on Yom Kippur.) Psycho-halachic process of course plays more of a factor on my own thinking about how I do shabbos, but it's a much larger issue I'm addressing of misrepresentation of klal yisrael.
i think all that i would say to dauer is that i think if the "psycho-halakhic process" results in what looks to most people like a transgression of the laws of Shabbat,
Not to most, to those caught up in the very particular lens of Orthodoxy.
you have an uphill struggle in front of you, for reasons of ma'arat 'ayeen if nothing else,
I don't think that factors into it at all. Rather imo, acting in ways that honor shabbos while breaking with halachah sets a positive example for how to help Judaism develop further.
Dauer