The following is a post by Dale Lehman, the host of planet Bahai on the subject of homosexuality and the Bahai Faith.
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"Because the question was raised specifically with respect to the Baha'i Faith, I will respond here (and I hope that's all right), but will confine my remarks to the Baha'i teachings on the subject.
Before I start, however, because the question of homosexuality is so emotionally charged for so many people I'd ask that you for a moment set aside any preconceptions you might have and try to understand what I'm going to say. I tend not to discuss this subject very much because people so often fail to listen and instead respond only based their own preconceptions. The Baha'i teachings on homosexuality, however do not readily fit into the "canned" (for political purposes) varieties with which most people are familiar.
First, then, the most important thing to realize is that Baha'u'llah calls for the elimination of all forms of prejudice. A careful reading of His Writings and those of 'Abdu'l-Baha and Shoghi Effendi show that He does not leave us any excuse to look down on anyone or to treat anyone as inferior. His exhortations on this subject are so numerous that they must be regarded as more fundamental to His teachings than almost anything else. One example should suffice:
O children of men! Know ye not why We created you all from the same dust? That no one should exalt himself over the other. Ponder at all times in your hearts how ye were created. Since We have created you all from one same substance it is incumbent on you to be even as one soul, to walk with the same feet, eat with the same mouth and dwell in the same land, that from your inmost being, by your deeds and actions, the signs of oneness and the essence of detachment may be made manifest. Such is My counsel to you, O concourse of light! Heed ye this counsel that ye may obtain the fruit of holiness from the tree of wondrous glory.
(Baha'u'llah, The Hidden Words, Arabic 68)
Unlike some other religions, there is no discussion (at least not that I have heard) in the Baha'i community over whether or not homosexuals can serve in various official capacities. Homosexuals can be Baha'is (and there are some that I know of), can play an active role in the Baha'i community, and can even hold elected and appointed offices.
The issue is strictly one of behavior, not of the cause of homosexuality and not of whether or not being a homosexual makes one a "second class citizen". Where sexual behavior is concerned, it is true that Baha'u'llah established a standard: sexual relations are only considered rightful when they take place in the confines of a monogamous heterosexual marriage. Doing otherwise is regarded as spiritually harmful, in addition to the various health problems that can arise from risky behaviors.
Two things need to be understood here, however. First, it is a given that nobody is perfect and that we all fall short in various ways. Baha'u'llah counsels us (as did Jesus) to focus on acquiring perfections in our own lives and not to dwell on the imperfections of others. Among His statements in this regard is the following, which mirrors Jesus' counsel regarding "casting the first stone":
O son of man! Breathe not the sins of others so long as thou art thyself a sinner. Shouldst thou transgress this command, accursed wouldst thou be, and to this I bear witness.
(Baha'u'llah, The Hidden Words, Arabic 27)
Commenting on such teachings, Shoghi Effendi noted that we are like a group of people plowing a field. Each of us should focus on the row we are plowing to make sure it stays straight. If we worry about whether or not someone else's row is straight and spend all our time trying to correct them, our own row will quickly end up out of kilter. Thus, it is not for us as individual Baha'is to worry about whether or not the next person is living a "good Baha'i life", but rather to worry about bringing our own lives into conformity with God's will.
Second, if there is any such thing as a "hierarchy of sins", sexual sins are not at the top of the list. Baha'u'llah seems to regard what I sometimes call "sins of disunity" as far more serious, and indeed the one sin He specifically called "grievous" is the sin of backbiting. He seems to regard backbiting as the spiritual equivalent of murder, an act that harms not only the object of ill talk but also the person doing the talking.
It should also be noted that where homosexuality is termed an "abnormality" the word is being used in a very pure sense: a deviation from the norm. It is not used with pejorative connotations (as an examination of the context will reveal), nor does it imply some medically correctable condition. In point of fact, in our species reproduction is accomplished sexually and thus heterosexuality is the normal condition for members of our species. (If this were not so, we wouldn't be here talking about this. We'd have gone extinct thousands of years ago.) Whatever its causes, homosexuality is not a normal condition. It affects a very small percentage of the human population, thus it is abnormal, a deviation from the norm. That's all the term means.
It is certainly a challenge to live with this condition if one chooses to embrace the Baha'i Faith, because of the behavioral standard Baha'u'llah sets forth. However, it is in fact always going to be a challenge, no matter who you are, to live a "good Baha'i life". No religion claims that life is going to be a cakewalk. Tests and trials are a part of life, a mechanism decreed by God through which the human soul progresses and is purified. The challenge of homosexuality is in reality just one of these tests. There is no answer for why some people are tested in this way and others are tested in other ways. That appears to be a matter of what Baha'u'llah refers to as "God's inscrutable wisdom". But there is an implication here:
My challenges are mine, your challenges are yours, and whatever they are they should not come between us. We each are (with any luck) doing our best to live according to what we believe are good principles. We are of course going to stumble from time to time, but we are all capable of rising to the challenge God has set before us.
And one last point: Baha'u'llah's laws are applicable to Baha'is, people who have accepted Him as the Manifestation of God for this age. If you do not accept Him as such, then there is no particular reason why you should follow His laws. You should do what you think God wants you to do.
Sorry for being so long-winded, but I hope this helps to clarify a few things."
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