Unfortunately I have not had a chance to read all of the replies. I must say this though, I can never be a part of any religion that teaches original sin. My infant son passed away around Christmas 2005. He died in a Catholic hospital and never recieved a formal Baptism. I ask God daily that my son be the first of my family to great me in Heaven and I have no doubt this prayer will be answered. I have since given birth to a healthy baby girl. She is a true miracle. We both almost passed away during childbirth but obviously we had an angel watching over us. Both of my children are without blemish! That is why this particular subject interest me so. As far as Christianity as a whole is concerned, I have many other troubles.
I do apprieciate all of the replies and will answer any details as soon as I have a moment.
Your child is exempt from the consequences of original sin. Even the Pope (this one), has declared that as truth. Grace of God covers all, especially babies.
I'm sorry for your loss. But I suspect your "wish" will come true. In the mean time, you got alot of living to do...