"It was more like he called the legalists fools & told them to go to hell."
"It's more like he ripped them an new orifice because they were so full of it."
Yoww!!
I don't care for the attitude and I don't think it was Jesus' attitude either. I'll explain.
The Pharisees saw a kind of sublime religionist role for themselves as "keepers of the
halakah." They may have meant well, but their ideas on ritual purity were not part of the official religion, which was represented by the Sadducees. The
halakah itself had doubtful status, and appears to have been at the core of the ideological split between the Pharisees and the Sadducees.
My sense it that Jesus saw the Pharisees as good people who were getting sidetracked with regard to the importance of outward ritual (see Luke 11:39-41). He Jesus may also have been concerned that they sought political ascendancy within the religious establishment in the hope of making their views on ritual law to be more dominant (see Luke 11:43). The Pharisees' concern with being visible at the temple may have been an aspect of that.
Jesus may have been upset with them because their preccupation with outward ritual and political ambitions had potential to cause them to lose sight of the importance of an honest relationship with G-d.
Btw, there is a book that suggests that Jesus himself may have been a Pharisee. That being the case, his concern with the Pharisees stemmed from the fact that he identified with them as a group and wanted to seem them thrive spiritually. I don't think Jesus had a punitive or even dismissive attitude toward them. He loved them enough to take issue with some of their shortcomings.
Here's a link to that book:
Amazon.com: Jesus the Pharisee: Hyam Maccoby: Books