Possessed!

Alex P said:
Not yet! This november 7th I shall be yes... But more importantly it is also my wifes choice.

Yeah you said you were engaged simply after an introduction? And your parents choose your husband... I think that sounds unfair on you. :(
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Your wifes choosed for you? :confused: Are there 4 marriages allowed in yours?

Unfair? Why thinked so? Why it should be unfair in paretns choice?
 
No we -both- did.. Marriage is a thing of love and partnership :) It can't simply be You mary that one and that one marry this one and you have to marry that one.... I guess it just seems alien here as I am from a different culture... But just strange the lack of free will and the restriction seems so wrong on an act of love.. *shrugs*
 
Summia Rahmaan said:
Salaam alaike faithful angle..Oh, I'm so sorry for being late coz I was busy in exams dearest one...I love your feelings :)

Thank you Summia :)

I read your all comments and want to comment a little bit for you may not irritate as you seemed to be well in your end comments, very nice!

That boy was not at fault, and niether you. It's true you was in love without doubt no magical influence. YOu should thank to Allah Almigty who has healed you through His guidance which is real satisfaction.

Sometimes we think, just he is sincere to us and none else. If we will start looking arround us, will find many persons like him. He was not special, but he was your BROTHER :D oh, just want to cheer you up. May be he was lost in hospital and putted to someones else cart :D you now newly borned babies are changed usually in hospitals and may be you attracted because of bloody relation with him which you feels as magic....ssssory :eek: love stories aren't serious to me, just make good cheers and live a guided life.....

Are you married now? If not then select your life partner who loves you, not to whom you loved. You know my fiancee (I'm engaged I introduced) he is very innocent person. He try to make me happy in different ways. Firstly, I wasn't ready for him he was such type of tridational family guy. When he felt that I'm getting away form him, he started acting like I wish for. He says to me, "You will forget all if I'll love you so love me or I'll die" and I laughed. I used to bother him saying, "I'll not" that creates lot of fun when he takes after me. He was chosen by my parents and I feel he is good for me coz I'll bother him a lot after marriage :p , try to live happy with whatever situation you have to accept it ...too much I talked sorry at all!

hmm.. good question lol.. I'm not married yet and not sure of looking around at the moment I am happy with my life :). Though my mom insisted if I could not find my own life partner, maybe she would take a step to find for me one lol...

Maybe I'm stepping aside my love life for awhile till there is someone whom have connections with?

I'm ok with my mom's plans if I don't do anything lol.. I guess because love can be a happiest thing or a painful one, I am done with some painful events. But for now, I am happy to be myself again and found myself again, truly thanking allah for that..


I hope you didn't bored you by my words as I see you are satisfed Mashallah! May Allah bless you wit guided life,ameen!:)
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And nope am not bored with your words, but it's always good to hear from others :D
 
farhan said:
Are you sure it wasn't just love? Subjectively love isnt much different from black magic. Both feel like scorpions beneath your pillow. Both feel like being possessed. Men get bald because of love (Women only get bald by magic :p)
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well maybe it is love plus black magic...

but it wasn't normal after a period of time, I do get possessed or say the different me came out at work and at home really different from who i was.

Honestly, I used to see unseen things when i was 5. i tends to hears things maybe we should never have.. example; when i went to visit the grave of my late father i saw things and hear things at the grave.

another example is when my home was erie, i could feel something infront of my home gate and so i sat there with my mom and read the verses of the quran. in the middle of reading them, I could hear screams and some kind of "thing" like you know when the water goes down the sink... - that kinda of sound.. and my heart wished i could run into my home instead of sitting there reading the verses..lol
 
Faithful-Angel said:
for two years I work there and fell head-over-heels with him, never ones the collegues protest against him or his works... as time passes I got into a depression becos of him and I can't seem to work on anything. Everywhere I go I see his face...
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Congratulations... welcome to heartbreak. It hurts, but it's necessary. It is a very important milestone on the path of faith, because nothing tests a person more then this. It lasts years, but when you come out of it, you will be a stronger, and more complete person. (That is, if you make it out of this place with your faith in tact. InshAllah, you will)

The only advise I have for you is: stay away from "spiritual healers". Put your trust in God alone, and know that whatever happened, was for the best. It happened for your benefit.
 
ya know, it is threads like this that make me aware of how closed minded I am. I think I'm open minded, but it is obvious I'm in denial.
 
I guess because love can be a happiest thing or a painful one, I am done with some painful events.
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I disagree dear with this statement...pains in love? I don't think so happens in love! May be you faced something dangerous I really find a cheerful love in my life and salute him for his all struggle...Lot of prayers for him! May God Almighty bless him good life-partner to keep him happy as he wish for others to live happy. That's why I disgree with your this statement. I'm lucky to find him as my brother, waw, my kids would have four uncles ("Mammu ji" in urdu), yipee :D you know you love to hear form others another good for me to put my inner on the board...wanna hear more? hm? or enough pains dea-rest one! :rolleyes:.
 
Summia Rahmaan said:
I disagree dear with this statement...pains in love? I don't think so happens in love! .
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And I disagree with yours... Unrequited love is the most painful experience known to man (and woman). Most of the greatest art and even some of the most powerful philosophies in the world were born from that very pain.

Just because you have not experienced those feelings, does not mean they do not exist, or are not real.
 
Summia Rahmaan said:
I disagree dear with this statement...pains in love? I don't think so happens in love! May be you faced something dangerous I really find a cheerful love in my life and salute him for his all struggle...Lot of prayers for him! May God Almighty bless him good life-partner to keep him happy as he wish for others to live happy. That's why I disgree with your this statement. I'm lucky to find him as my brother, waw, my kids would have four uncles ("Mammu ji" in urdu), yipee :D you know you love to hear form others another good for me to put my inner on the board...wanna hear more? hm? or enough pains dea-rest one! :rolleyes:.
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Love is pain, and pain is Love.

Why I said that because without pain one can never learn to love others more than what you have given them.

without pain, one never knows that there is someone there to love you back than the one you tried to love.

without pain, one never learn mistakes of the past of not to repeat again.

without pain, one never learn that he/she can be stronger for another person's pain.

without pain, one never learn what true love is.

and without pain, one never realised how allah loves them, is to give them pain.


I'm 27 this year and I faced quite a few painful memories. with that I talk to god, and mashallah.. allah always heal my pain..:)

I love to hear your points too..
 
Peace--
I see that a lot of people already replied. I hope you have solved your problem.
Anyway. I grew up in a culture where people practiced magic and many people were cautious about it. From what my grandmother always advised, may she rest in peace, to protect yourself from the evil people who practice the magic, you must be faithful to God Almighty, must pray to Him, read from the Holy Qur'an, do a lot of dhikr (rememberance of God Almighty) and believe in him with your whole being. This is #1 protection.
Second good protection is to: not give your clothes to anyone (not even relatives or friends), do not give your jewlery or try to not wear jewlery from suspicious sources, do not eat or drink food/beverages from other people.
The jinn are beings from another dimension. In some cultures they are called demons/ghosts. There are good and bad jinn. God Almighty has commanded that there be no contact between us and the jinn. So, the good jinn will never break that commandment. So almost always any contact with "spirits" or "ghosts" is the evil jinn.
The evil jinn can shapeshift and can scare us. It is the fear, great anger, the negative emotions that we may experience which helps them possess us.
From my experience, the worst kind of sihr (magic influence) comes when the magician gets hold of your clothes, gives you food with stuff in it, your jewlery, hair or nails, etc. You must be really careful.
My people teach that magician must renew the magic every 40 days unless he/she was able to get an evil spirit/jinn to possess you. If a jinn is inside you, you will have to fight it through lots of prayers/salats and reciting from the Holy Book, good personal hygiene and staying away from bad habits/bad social situations.
There are certain symptoms that may tell you if in fact the person you are talking about cast a magic on you/love spell. For instance:
1) Do you constantly obsess about him?
2) Are your thoughts very sexual?
3) Do you feel possessive of the person to the point that if you would to be in a relationship with him and are about to break up with him, that you would think of suicide?
The black magician would use the magic with the intent "be mine or die" mindset.
But remember: no magician has power unless God Almighty allows him to perform some magic stuff. If in fact you are harmed by the magic, perhaps it is a test for you that you may either fail or pass.
My mother almost died from black magic when she gave birth to me. And again, they say that teens in puberty and women who just gave birth are the most susceptible to the attacks.
Plus, any kind of depression is a sign of spiritual attack--not necessarily black magic.
I hope you find a person who might help you more. But, seek help with Allah Almighty.
Peace. I hope you get better.
 
Amica said:
Peace--
I see that a lot of people already replied. I hope you have solved your problem.
Anyway. I grew up in a culture where people practiced magic and many people were cautious about it. From what my grandmother always advised, may she rest in peace, to protect yourself from the evil people who practice the magic, you must be faithful to God Almighty, must pray to Him, read from the Holy Qur'an, do a lot of dhikr (rememberance of God Almighty) and believe in him with your whole being. This is #1 protection.
Second good protection is to: not give your clothes to anyone (not even relatives or friends), do not give your jewlery or try to not wear jewlery from suspicious sources, do not eat or drink food/beverages from other people.
The jinn are beings from another dimension. In some cultures they are called demons/ghosts. There are good and bad jinn. God Almighty has commanded that there be no contact between us and the jinn. So, the good jinn will never break that commandment. So almost always any contact with "spirits" or "ghosts" is the evil jinn.
The evil jinn can shapeshift and can scare us. It is the fear, great anger, the negative emotions that we may experience which helps them possess us.
From my experience, the worst kind of sihr (magic influence) comes when the magician gets hold of your clothes, gives you food with stuff in it, your jewlery, hair or nails, etc. You must be really careful.
My people teach that magician must renew the magic every 40 days unless he/she was able to get an evil spirit/jinn to possess you. If a jinn is inside you, you will have to fight it through lots of prayers/salats and reciting from the Holy Book, good personal hygiene and staying away from bad habits/bad social situations.
There are certain symptoms that may tell you if in fact the person you are talking about cast a magic on you/love spell. For instance:
1) Do you constantly obsess about him?
2) Are your thoughts very sexual?
3) Do you feel possessive of the person to the point that if you would to be in a relationship with him and are about to break up with him, that you would think of suicide?
The black magician would use the magic with the intent "be mine or die" mindset.
But remember: no magician has power unless God Almighty allows him to perform some magic stuff. If in fact you are harmed by the magic, perhaps it is a test for you that you may either fail or pass.
My mother almost died from black magic when she gave birth to me. And again, they say that teens in puberty and women who just gave birth are the most susceptible to the attacks.
Plus, any kind of depression is a sign of spiritual attack--not necessarily black magic.
I hope you find a person who might help you more. But, seek help with Allah Almighty.
Peace. I hope you get better.
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Salaam Amica, Ya allah.. that is what I am have been facing mayshallah..
exactly what you said.. the three list:

talking about cast a magic on you/love spell. For instance:
1) Do you constantly obsess about him?
I see his jinn everyday and everywhere I go.

2) Are your thoughts very sexual?
suddenly yes, which i don't usually. because I don't like the thought of it (as too be pure for instances.) sometimes it got really bad at work, until I don't know what to do praying for god to help me I end up smoking to stop that sexual feeling........ my mom didn't know about it when i was suffering... Thank god I didn't do bad things...then smoking...

3) Do you feel possessive of the person to the point that if you would to be in a relationship with him and are about to break up with him, that you would think of suicide?

yes.. I never thought of suicide in my whole life, even when my late dad passed away, I never thought of suicide not till suddenly this man appearance. I thought of him and thinking of looking for him at his home and all, lucky after sometime my mom notice my behaviour was strange she stopped working and looking after me at home. I really had to quit my job because of him..... i was in a bad state for the whole year 2008.

it was very difficult for me to do prayers even. each time I start my prayers I would feel shaky and torn apart. I zikir and never eat much only drinks... my mom n sister was suffering too, crying for me.. it was terrible.

The reason why i open this topic because if those who happened to in my position, can atleast read about this and do what ever they can.

the best part was, my mom went to see him at my wrok place. He told my mom to sent me to mental hospital. If he was even a friend, he would have been very concern about me.

I was very patient and zirkir in my heart even i was possessed.
 
The very thing is that, I could see his jinn in the office and I was zikir at that point. but sometimes allah test us too, the faith...

I was working and I could not do much, I lost my interest, I couldn't think. the best part. I confronted him that one day, that I was suffering from a someone in the work place sending me black magic..... I really feel the danger and warning..

he talked to me but did not look me in the eye and pretend nothing happened.

mayshallah, i left everything to allah...
 
I am not an expert or scholar, so please do not take everything I say to be an absolute truth ;). I advise you to see a good imam who can explain things to you and direct you about what you can do to help yourself through islamic teachings.
Here are the symptoms of the "love magic" that I found on one of the muslim websites that discusses kinds of magic that may struck a person.

Symptoms of love sihr:
1. Excessive feeling of being in love (being obsessed about a person)
2. Excessive desire for sexual intercourse with the person
3. Inability to bear the person not being in your presence/excessive yearning for their presence
4. Great desire to actually see the person in question
5. Unquestionable following of the person (doing whatever they ask you to do even if it hurts you)

The purpose of this kind of magic, according to this website, is for two reasons: 1) to cast the magic on the person desired to be with and 2) to make a spouse 'love' you more.
So, love magic is not intended usually to destroy one's life.

You mentioned that you "see the jinn" of this person. It sounds like that your excessive infatuation with this person is causing you to visually, and perhaps auditorily, hallucinate. A hallucination is something anyone can experience in life and may be induced by stress. Also, a hallucination is a symtpom of a mental health problem. There are different kind of hallucinations. Some are visual, auditory (hearing), olfactory (smell) or tactile (physical sense of a touch). Some people experience some or all.

Now, sister, I do not know you personally. I do not know what you are going through. But I advise you to first continue to pray and focuse on Allah swt only. Second, go see an imam and talk to him. Tell him all that you experience and feel. He should be able to direct you what to do. And third (you may not like this one), please also see a therapist/psychologist or psychiatrist. Your problem may be something else.

Keep in mind, that evil jinn can attack person spiritually without any help from a person casting spells. Also, how is it that you came to a conclusion that this guy is using black magic? You must seriously revisit all that you are able to recall, because as you know Islam teaches that being suspicious of someone may cause you to sin by accusing the person falsely.

Just because this guy was new and no one was socializing with him at first, does not mean he is a black magic performer. It could simply mean that he was new and people did not know him all that well. Perhaps you fell in love with him and for some reason, your other problems in life, the stress of having feelings for someone who does not care as much and other factors, may have caused you to experience a mental break down in some way.

Mental health problems are the same as physical problems. Nothing to be ashamed of. There are thousands of people who struggle with mental health problems. I work in mental health field and it breaks my heart to see how much one can be tortured mentally.

Do not allow yourself to get to the point where your mental health deteriorates so badly to the point where you are unable to distinguish what is real and what is unreal. Please. I do not want to sound mean. No. I want to help you. Regardless if your problems are sihr caused or not, they impact your health (physical and mental). And you need to deal with it.
 
Hi Amica,

I can understand what you mean. But I have anaylzed all have happend.
I have seen both a specialised doctor and an Ustatz for the problem. I have been trying to inform the people around me when it happened.

some advised me to see Ustatz for healers to get the Jinn out of my body. But I wasn't to keen thinking the this matter would be small. I went to see the specialised doctor and all they can do is give me some medicine for stabling myself and talk to them. But after sometime I got possessed and was unable to move around, my mom informed me that i start talking weirdly. And decides for me to see the Ustatz...

He came over a few times to get the Jinn out and talk to the Jinn. After the moment of "unpleasant tranced" I sort of awaked, and wondered what happened to me.

I wasn't to well to talk and endup getting fever. I continued to see the Ustat for help and seems getting better and better.

I went to see the doctor again after a month, of course i did inform her about this too.. and so far I ate a months medicined and then stopped all medicine to see if im ok. early this year i was discharged from the doctor and continued extra prayers and zikirs when i can. Because the problem is this Jinn have stopped possessing me, but I still can feel it disturbances at times.

I am better now and continued to read the few verses to help me and protect me from it. sometimes i dream of the Jinn, like slowly getting away bit by bit. what I meant was, (since the jinn can change shapes and looks) i dream that pieces by pieces of the jinn, the looks changing, the eyes that made me under the spell is now left with one red eye.

I am trying the best I can, not saying that i am a very good muslim but i always tries to be a better muslim each day.

thank you for your info as I was thinking of looking for further help from an imam who can help me in better ways and of course I would still pray and zikir as often for what has happened because of allah's swt will, so I still put my faith on to him and him alone i seek too... just hope for a better help in maybe i needed better verses reading from the quran or well sometimes asking help from an imam shouldn't be that bad?
 
I give up... these chicks are crazy man

(and not "crazy in love" either... just the plain crazy lol)
 
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