So OK, soleil10, let me try to start over and explain where I am coming from in an unemotional manner:
Reverend Moon is well-known for conducting mass weddings, of hundreds of couples, many of whom had not met each other at all before the matches were arranged for them. I find this regressive, more than a little creepy, and-- none of my freaking business; as long as these are all uncoerced adults, I think it is their right to marry any way they please.
Should I, instead, be lending my voice and money to campaigns to legally invalidate every "so-called marriage" performed by Moon or his followers? It is quite likely that over 50% of the people find it disturbing: would that make it right to invalidate your marriages? Would it be appropriate to shriek "FASCIST!" at anyone who would leave it up to individual freedom instead?