Namaste Mort and Shawn, thank you for your responses, your contentions on what I was trying to say are accurate.
LOL, you want me to define where G!d is in the sofa or sock? Always seventh thread from the end my brother. G!d is not in the sofa or sock like a raisin is in a bun. Omnipresent, everywhere present all the time. You are reminding me of the cosmonaut who said, Well no heaven or G!d up here! Do you think any of our oil drills have pierced hell yet??
Years ago, I sat on a curb after church one day with Mikal Abdul-Muhamin. He's since become a Buddhist monk. Our conversation that day revolved around the a sermon from my preacher on unconditional love. Something I had been struggling with for years. I told him I can't get beyond it, and by my actions while I think I am making strides with some of the concepts, tis obvious even with my family I place conditions on them. He said it was his thought that if we are trying to learn something we can learn it intellectually, or learn it spiritually, but if we can't come to a strong enough understanding in either of those arena's the universe just might conspire to asssist us by learning if physically. I wanted to hit him.
Now the murder and rape of an 8 year old is obviously a horrific event. (Have you read 'The Shack'?) And I am not denying in any way shape or form the pain, that occurs from such a thing. Nor am I willing to diminish it. But if it occurred, I can't reverse it, but I can control my perception and feelings about it.
There is a woman at our church whose sister was murdered by her nephew (an inlaw siblings son). Through prayer and meditation she has gotten to the point of forgiveness where she can visit the person in prison, can write him letters and communicate without hate. Now her family cannot understand her, it is not that the loss of her sister did not hurt or distress her, but that she has chosen to move on and grow from that event. And due to that she has learned forgiveness in a way not possible without the event, and has become a model for others to see what potential and possibility is out there. Countless folks have overcome anger issues at folks they previously perceived wronged them and have grown, due to her growth.
In no way justifying murder, but accepting what is, and growing from it...powerful stuff.
My mantra when drama occurs in my life. "I don't remember wanting this lesson. I don't recall standing in line to sign up for this class. But I dearly want to understand and pass this test. As I do not wish to retake it."
Namaste Thomas,Where, exactly? And why, cos you say so?
OK. Rape and murder. Of an eight year old. Where's the good in that, in your philosophy?
LOL, you want me to define where G!d is in the sofa or sock? Always seventh thread from the end my brother. G!d is not in the sofa or sock like a raisin is in a bun. Omnipresent, everywhere present all the time. You are reminding me of the cosmonaut who said, Well no heaven or G!d up here! Do you think any of our oil drills have pierced hell yet??
Years ago, I sat on a curb after church one day with Mikal Abdul-Muhamin. He's since become a Buddhist monk. Our conversation that day revolved around the a sermon from my preacher on unconditional love. Something I had been struggling with for years. I told him I can't get beyond it, and by my actions while I think I am making strides with some of the concepts, tis obvious even with my family I place conditions on them. He said it was his thought that if we are trying to learn something we can learn it intellectually, or learn it spiritually, but if we can't come to a strong enough understanding in either of those arena's the universe just might conspire to asssist us by learning if physically. I wanted to hit him.
Now the murder and rape of an 8 year old is obviously a horrific event. (Have you read 'The Shack'?) And I am not denying in any way shape or form the pain, that occurs from such a thing. Nor am I willing to diminish it. But if it occurred, I can't reverse it, but I can control my perception and feelings about it.
There is a woman at our church whose sister was murdered by her nephew (an inlaw siblings son). Through prayer and meditation she has gotten to the point of forgiveness where she can visit the person in prison, can write him letters and communicate without hate. Now her family cannot understand her, it is not that the loss of her sister did not hurt or distress her, but that she has chosen to move on and grow from that event. And due to that she has learned forgiveness in a way not possible without the event, and has become a model for others to see what potential and possibility is out there. Countless folks have overcome anger issues at folks they previously perceived wronged them and have grown, due to her growth.
In no way justifying murder, but accepting what is, and growing from it...powerful stuff.
My mantra when drama occurs in my life. "I don't remember wanting this lesson. I don't recall standing in line to sign up for this class. But I dearly want to understand and pass this test. As I do not wish to retake it."