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Embracing the Mystery
I really think you're pushing your relativizing to the furthest limits here. How can people handle mutually exclusive and contradictory G-d concepts? For example how does one reconcile atheism (Buddhism) with monotheism (Christianity? This goes well beyond "cognitive dissonance." It goes to logical impossibilties. Offhand, a likely way people can deal with G-d concepts that are so far apart is not to think about how different they are. Would you call that "mindful"?
Many Buddhists do not seem to be atheist as much as they believe if Gods exist, it wouldn't change things substantially for us. At least, this is what I've heard from the Buddhists I have known. While categorically Buddhism is an atheist religion and Christianity is a monotheist one, in practice, this may or may not be at the core of someone's religious system. Many people are religious as a social and practical endeavor, and do not put a lot of thought into what the implications are of their beliefs.
Furthermore, people handle mutually exclusive and contradictory concepts all the time, even within single traditions. The most common within Christianity is to accept certain Biblical events while simultaneously thinking these things are impossible in the rest of reality. This doesn't make much logical sense, but people have mental ways 'round the problem that allow them to simultaneously hold two realities at once.
But as I've said before, I don't know any Buddhist Christians. I do know people who have taken things from both Buddhism and Christianity and made something new.
How can one apply an unknown? People who do not recognize behavioral options do not avail themselves of those options. What you are suggesting contradicts every we know scientifically about social learning and the acquisition of culture. Most learning is observational is is based on what we see on other people's repetoire. A lot of it is modeling rather than direct instruction.
First, spiritual development (to me) is not the same thing as the acquisition of culture. One can be creative and approach spiritual knowing through a variety of means that are not related to any single religion. Living and reflection on such is, in itself, a method of spiritual development.
Second, you suggested that the improper or incomplete practice of religion could lead to "lack of results, backsliding, faulty applications, etc." I disagree. I think religious practice (unless it is the obvious exception, such as use of hallucinogens or other practices that can directly harm the body if not practiced correctly) is not some mechanistic cause-effect thing... and this is what I am arguing. I am saying nothing about how people acquire culture or learn behavior. What you suggest, as an example, is that if communion is improperly given and/or taken, the resulting grace and connection to God, affirmation of faith, and so on are somehow mucked up. I think that's a bit irrational. It is the motivation behind the act that opens oneself (or not) to God, or to self-actualization, or to any other higher potential toward which we might be called.
You seem to be proposing that it is the accuracy and correctness of the ritual that leads to a certain result- this is a mechanistic way of looking at religious behavior. I propose it is the motivation and interior life that leads to a certain result; ritual can stem from or integrate with this, but is not the prime driver. Ritual is devoid of meaning if the practitioner does not give it any, and conversely, ritual that is inaccurately done, but that is given meaning, is meaningful to the practitioner.
I don't think doing religious ritual is like baking biscuits- there is no formula that makes a good ritual from a bad ritual.
Also, relatively small proportions of people in the States significant amounts of time on prayer. But my point was about how do we make informed decisions when borrowing from other traditions.
And my point is that we make informed decisions, no matter what tradition(s) we embrace, when we put sincerity, time, and effort into it. I fail to see where the question is any different for single traditions than it is for multiple traditions, except in the time and effort involved.
That said, again, I think it is relative to the individual. Everyone has different capacities for religious study and knowledge, but I don't think that translates to the capacity for spiritual development.
I'd be happy to look into it if you'd state a precise research question. In the meantime, this assertion is unsupported:
And my point is, I think you also make unsupported assertions. I have no precise research question for you. You posed an original assertion that was unsupported. I posed a rebuttal that was also unsupported. I am speaking from my observations and experience; I would imagine you are also. So I fail to understand why I should bother proposing research questions and so on, when it has been your own assertions that began this particular trajectory.
I maintain that at the heart of my relativist-based arguments is that it's none of my business to tell other people what will work for them spiritually and how they should practice thier tradition(s). I am basically a moral relativist, and since these particular issues have no harmful element, in my opinion, I think to each their own. I fail to see why you seem to have a problem with that.