Re: Why you want to make this about me I don't know
There isn't much that I have done or have been able to do in my community, and that is exactly what I want to change. Soup kitchens, volunteer photography (Cub Scouts & Weddings), donating toys and cloths to the salvation Army and Goodwill foundations is about the scope of my service activities. Unless of course you count my support, and ministering, and ongoing encouragement/friendship to those struggling with poverty & drug addiction, whom live in those “questionable” neighborhoods.
Good response James. This is the best idea that you have put forward so far. I think you should include these ideas in you organizational description. It makes your organization seem more "real".
Of course I would, but it doesn't look like DrumR or Brian will be involved until we have already developed a council of leaders and have gotten this group off its feet. I've already spoken to Brian, and declined using his forum until we get better organized. Otherwise, people like you would rip apart the efforts as displayed in this thread. (If anyone is still interested after this quite humiliating bludgeoning I took by Avi, just pm me).
Alright James, now you have made me feel suitably guility
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I did not mean to humiliate or bludgeon you and I apologized several posts ago for my sarcasm. After all, you were arguing at every step with me and many of your responses are reasonable ones.
You may not have noticed, but I posted two threads in the last couple of weeks related to leadership. And I have been studying some of the classic texts related to leadership. So when I saw your thread, I thought it would be interesting to explore this part of your nature. I did not mean to do this in a judgmental way, but I can see why you interpreted my comments in that way.
I should not have compared your leadership skills to Brian and DrumR, who both have considerable leadership capabilities, that is no reflection on you.
The leadership (In the beginning) will more than likely consist of about 12 council members, all of which will have equal authority, and voice. All decisions will be voted on by the council. The council will be responsible for making the big decisions and will take suggestions from our regular members.
Not everyone who has shown interest thus far wants to serve on the council, however – Most the seats are still available. Of course the council will be subject to change as we get more involved, depending on qualifications of those interested.
I still think you are getting ahead of yourself. I believe you need to focus more on content and less on process at the early stages of the work, which is where you are. In my view, you still have not defined your goals and objectives clearly.
Actually the mission statement was the opening text of the OP. The list is simply a code by which we encourage our members to live by, and it has already been revised so that it is more reasonable. The name was not “stolen”. Even so, the name can certainly be changed to something else. In the end, you can't please everyone, so we will make a decision on our name as a group later.
Ok, my comment about the title being "stolen" was sarcasm, again, but I still feel you have not thought sufficiently about the name of your organization.
Are you suggesting that criminal activities are common place in all “poor” neighborhoods?
No.
The type of neighborhoods I am speaking of, I have gone to often and have ministered, encouraged, and and have shown ongoing support to many of the residents there.
Good for you ! Now those acts have real significance and are probably worthy of further discussion.
They certainly know that their neighborhoods are questionable because of the crime.
What do you mean the neighborhoods are questionable ? I do not think that is what you mean. I think you mean they are dangerous. Why are you using a euphamism, why not just say what you mean ?
Yes, I am biased against crime. I'm not one to sugar coat the reality behind such places.
And I am not suggesting that you do so.
I didn't come here to argue … but when you put me in a corner and slap me around like you did I'm going to react.
Ok, I get your point, I apologize if you feel slapped.
I apologize if I offended you in any way, but you were wrong to do so.
You did not offend me, no worries.
You have an obvious problem with loyalty/trustworthiness,
We have not discussed trustworthiness and I feel that your ideas about loyalty are misguided.
so I don't expect you will ever be on board.
Actually, I am quite interested in service opportunities. But my nature is to question authority and challenge poorly articulated ideas. It is also possible that you will never be on board, because that depends on what it is that we are boarding !!
I made my case for loyalty and what I thought it entailed. You still disagree, no worries... There are others whom value loyalty as a desired characteristic.
I still think your ideas of loyalty need more maturing.
James, you are obviously a good guy and you are trying to do good things. You have support from Brian and DrumR, and that is a pretty good start. Maybe the reason others are reluctant to join up is because you have not articulated a vision. Perhaps you should try to clarify and develop your case to make it stronger.
I know that I have to work on restraint and toning down my sarcasm.