I acknowledge that this is a risk and I am aiming to avoid it.
I accept that from different points of view, particularly differing belief systems, the experiment could be crude, and I apologize if any offense has been caused by this.
What I am looking to do is cut through the subjectivity and find the referents for experience. The subjective nature of spirituality appears to be what ultimately leads to conflict and misunderstanding.
People have been arguing these same matters for centuries. People have been seeking to understand for centuries. People have warred over these same issues...for centuries.
When I first entered the fray, I thought I could enlighten the world. After more than 25 years I am still amazed at how little I truly *know.*
I acknowledge that my impressions of the implied personality may be too narrow, but then my concern is that these are the impressions those outside particular belief systems are left with.
That is because so many, especially the minimally involved laity that are only too happy with the skeletal explanations so they can get on with other matters in their lives, accept without question the symbol as the thing.
As BB pointed to briefly here, but has expanded upon many times elsewhere, G-d in the Old Testament particularly is referenced by both male and female referents. How can He be She?, at the same time?
There are many people content to point to the menu and say, "see, there's G-d!" But the menu is not the meal. This is a very common misunderstanding among theistic adherents...and it is a residual fallacy that continues into atheism. Atheists "shout from the rooftops" their need for and direct attachment to religion in perpetuating the same misconceptions, attaching a *human personality* onto the Divine. As BB is fond of saying...G-d is not some big grey beard or (sagging) tits (reclining on a cloud) in the sky looking to hurl thunderbolts at whomever displeases them...yet that is precisely the strawman atheists routinely set up to knock down! And a great many theists fall for it every time.
The underlying problem I am trying to solve, which I did not wish to expose for fear it would raise defensiveness is that all language and communication is based upon referents. What I am looking for is the referent for God, and if one cannot be found the various other referents which are abstracted upon in order to come to a summary called 'God'.
I haven't been around here for a while, but I know I have explored the subject of spirituality in pre-history on a few threads. I know one where I tried to collect a series of related findings was the Applied Anthropology thread, and there might be a couple of pointers in there to help find the threads I'm thinking of.
My point being...why would our ancestors go to the trouble and expend the precious energy to "create" G-d out of nothing? It is clearly evident by many of the cave paintings and artifacts and burial goods that there was a universal preoccupation with spiritual matters very far back in human history. "G-d" didn't arise at one point and spread..."He" has always been with humanity as long as humanity has existed. Now, in fairness that is my own extrapolation, but the evidence is pretty clear from the findings of not only Cro-Magnon (modern humans), but also findings among Neandertal and Homo Habilis...and I won't be the least surprised if they find evidence among Homo Floresiensis...all of which at some point were contemporary with each other.
And that brings us back around to symbolism and communication...which is something that distinguishes us from our simian cousins, who don't quite fully grasp the concept of symbolism. I could argue that symbolism is a requisite for language, the two seem to require each other. Other apes communicate, but that communication is a series of screeches and howls and inflections, and is focused on real time matters of concern. Only humans symbolically convey abstract thoughts that may have no direct relevence to the here and now...we call that phenomenon "teaching." (Yes, apes learn...by watching, not by communication of ideas...totally different and unique to humans)
As for a "referent for G-d," good luck. If we had that, all of the arguments and wars and jostling for cultural supremacy would end. We could collectively point to an absolute source and "prove" everything. That source doesn't exist...that doesn't mean G-d doesn't exist. There are many sources that do not exist in science...time has a way of eroding sources much more often than it preserves them.
The discussion that people know God even before they know a language is interesting, but my question would be how? What are the senses involved? Where in the body is it felt?
Where is the silver cord attached?
Poetically we say it is the heart...so do heart transplant people have no spirit?
Some want to believe what makes us, us, is in the mind...so do people with certain brain abnormalities have no spirit?
It's a great question, but another that has been asked for centuries with no clear answer. I know I feel it...I have known for a very long time where mine is. I sense that I can let it go, and I will not be in this existence any more. I can feel it even now as I write this. It is in the area of my diaphragm.
But I cannot prove it.
Stephen J. Gould noted the two non-overlapping magisteria, of science and religion. I mention him because (yet again, as so many before) you are attempting to answer matters of spirit with techniques of science. Science is about proof and disproof, validation and invalidation, collection of evidences and statistical bell curve expectations. But the subject matter simply does not lend itself to that form and kind of inquiry.
It is just as arrogantly ignorant of "science" to believe it can lord itself over understanding of spirit as it is for religionists to believe they can lord themselves over a scientific matter such as evolution. They are each speaking in completely different languages and talking past each other. In the end it is like explaining "love" by looking through a microscope. The tools are simply not appropriate to the task.
There seem to be differing beliefs here and effective communication about God, which is heartening to see. Unfortunately I feel this is a minority on the world stage and finding the means to cross these barriers is of great interest to me.
I welcome suggestions as to how the discussion could be better directed
If you maintain the attitude expressed here...and retain a mind open to possibilities but not so open that your brain spills out, you will do as well as anybody can hope to.
But you will not solve the problem for anyone else. In part because others must want to change for their own being and self, and in part because it is not yours to do.
"I'm looking at the man in the mirror...if you want to make the world a better place, you've got to look at yourself and make the change..." - Michael Jackson