Here is a quote from the "website suggestion" thread which seemed more appropriate to discuss in this thread:
This got me wondering, what happens if a partner in a Bahai marriage dies? Can Bahai remarry? ('till death do us part?) If they remarry, which of the two spouses will they "enjoy everlasting unity throughout all the worlds of God" with?
What is the Bahai view on divorce, is it allowed?
How about same-sex marriage?
Hey Iowa Guy.. Thanks for the great questions!
Let me see if I can respond.
Yes a Baha'i partner in a marriage could ascend/pass on...
Yes a Baha'i is free to remarry..
"Till death us do part" isn't in the wedding vows for Baha'is.. It's more like
"
We will all verily abide by the Will of God".
If they remarry, which of the two spouses will they "enjoy everlasting unity throughout all the worlds of God" with?
There's a ring to this that sounds familiar..When Jesus was asked by the Sadducees who would the woman with seven husbands be married to in the resurrection.. You know your Bible.
You can read what I posted above quoting Abdul-Baha as saying:
this would depend upon the respective stations of the two. If both had the same degree of development, they would be re-united immediately after death.
What is the Baha'i marriage about?
Wikipedia has it I think:
Bahá'í marriage is union of a man and a woman. Its purpose is mainly spiritual and is to foster harmony, fellowship and unity between the two partners. The
Bahá'í teachings on
marriage call it a
fortress for well-being and salvation and place marriage and the family as the foundation of the structure of
human society.
From the Baha'i Writings:
Among the people of Baha, however, marriage must be a union of the body and of the spirit as well, for here both husband and wife are aglow with the same wine, both are enamoured of the same matchless Face, both live and move through the same spirit, both are illumined by the same glory. This connection between them is a spiritual one, hence it is a bond that will abide forever. Likewise do they enjoy strong and lasting ties in the physical world as well, for if the marriage is based both on the spirit and the body, that union is a true one, hence it will endure. If, however, the bond is physical and nothing more, it is sure to be only temporary, and must inexorably end in separation.
When, therefore, the people of Baha undertake to marry, the union must be a true relationship, a spiritual coming together as well as a physical one, so that throughout every phase of life, and in all the worlds of God, their union will endure; for this real oneness is a gleaming out of the love of God.
In the same way, when any souls grow to be true believers, they will attain a spiritual relationship with one another, and show forth a tenderness which is not of this world. They will, all of them, become elated from a draught of divine love, and that union of theirs, that connection, will also abide forever. Souls, that is, who will consign their own selves to oblivion, strip from themselves the defects of humankind, and unchain themselves from human bondage, will beyond any doubt be illumined with the heavenly splendours of oneness, and will all attain unto real union in the world that dieth not.
("Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá" (Haifa: Bahá'í World Centre, 1982), sec. 84, pp. 117-18)
(Compilations, The Compilation of Compilations vol II, p. 439)
I'll continue on a succeeding post.