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Mercuræn Buddhist
speaking of dung beetles/scarabs/khepri transformation is also the essence of religion.
You are not describing either of us. Perhaps you are describing yourself?In your example: You have read somewhere that cheating is bad, guilt has arisen and you have brought it to her to relieve yourself of this guilt - it is clear it wasn't your own feeling because you have been able to cheat in the first place, if anything your ease in cheating is what you were really guilty about if you will look honestly. That ease you have not enjoyed, you didn't want to get away with it, so you told your wife about it.
You have provided her information so that she can be in control of the situation, something in you has wished for this to make the situation more difficult, you wanted her to show why this was wrong, to be angry about your wronging her. You have not dropped it because she has not made it difficult, she has continued to work with you to raise the children.
Perhaps you are describing yourself, in your condition?Control itself is an illusion, though. You have not decided to come into this world, that you must depart this world is not up to you although you can commit suicide to leave early - still you will use certain information to exercise this control.
Sharing control is potentially a lot more fun and productive. Agree? Think and answer carefully.True freedom is there when you stop all attempts to control, all notions of control, it is to find and live by the flow of life, to allow its current to take you.
Sharing control is potentially a lot more fun and productive. Agree? Think and answer carefully.
Thanks for the plug SGspeaking of dung beetles/scarabs/khepri transformation is also the essence of religion.
Christianity, Buddhism, and Taoism are also all about transformation. There are probably several others, as well.Thanks for the plug SG
Yes, a huge part of Egyptian religion centered around Kheperu
An Ouroboric cycle of: Apophis (chaos) - Kepri (transformation) - Ma'at (order)
I go on saying control as such is a fallacy...
Now I have no sense of control since I am told it is a fallacy. So, it is you that made me listen to that... that... horrendous... evil... transforming... feces throwing.... and now I am transformed by it?! I am ruined!!!Christianity, Buddhism, and Taoism are also all about transformation. There are probably several others, as well.
Now I have no sense of control since I am told it is a fallacy. So, it is you that made me listen to that... that... horrendous... evil... transforming... feces throwing.... and now I am transformed by it?! I am ruined!!!
Or, perhaps it is not what goes into the mind that transforms US, but rather... what comes out of US. What we DO. Thats better... that horrendous evil Lucifer worshipping music is fading now. I feel better. Carry on, as you wish.
Yes. Whereas with relationships I provide some control and I ask for control from others.All you have seen from me is a refusal to be controlled, an insistence on freedom, and this is why we have clashed.
Yes. I am not trying to destroy your ideas and beliefs any more than I am trying to destroy your history. It is beyond my power and interest to do your homework for you.Lunitik said:I have never presented any ideas to you, I have only tried to destroy yours because they are worthless.
From my perspective your words are a fallacy. Are they not?Lunitik said:I go on saying control as such is a fallacy...
Good to hear that you are taking responsibility for your words now. It would be evil for you not to. You agree?Lunitik said:For me, putting these ideas in peoples heads is as evil as acting on them...
To the contrary, I have often thanked you for sharing your words, and you are the only person from this website who I purchased airlines tickets for to come see me. Seeing as you call your words shit now, you surely don't mind that I call them evil, do you?Lunitik said:Our entire dialog has been about you defending your pile of shit and refusing to allow me to shovel it out.
I confess, I am full of more shit today than ever. Use your shit to help others in the manner that you would have others use their shit to help you, for that is the law and the... profits.Lunitik said:Yet I have been engaging in regular dialog with your for almost a year, I think I have grounds enough to say you're full of shit by now.
Yes. Whereas with relationships I provide some control and I ask for control from others.
Yes. I am not trying to destroy your ideas and beliefs any more than I am trying to destroy your history. It is beyond my power and interest to do your homework for you.
From my perspective your words are a fallacy. Are they not?
Good to hear that you are taking responsibility for your words now. It would be evil for you not to. You agree?
To the contrary, I have often thanked you for sharing your words, and you are the only person from this website who I purchased airlines tickets for to come see me. Seeing as you call your words shit now, you surely don't mind that I call them evil, do you?
I confess, I am full of more shit today than ever. Use your shit to help others in the manner that you would have others use their shit to help you, for that is the law and the... profits.
I can . . . whatever Lunitik's is, you simply are.I can't think of a religion where transformation isn't at the heart of it.
It can be transformation of the self (Christianity, et al,) or of the mind (Buddhism,) of society (Confucianism,) tranformation via evolution (Samkhya, Darwinism,) or even transformation of base medal into gold by the materialist alchemists.
Can anyone come up with a religion where transformation isn't a part of it?
See, do we call it a religion? He is "closest" to Buddhism (zen, esp). But (SG, help me on this) I certainly do not comprehend where he gets his information (in our "real world" or maybe "dream world" way). but his experience.
The essence of all religions should be LOVE.
Love, as in striving to understand & do what is best, through trial & error (active faith).
I can't think of a religion where transformation isn't at the heart of it.
It can be transformation of the self (Christianity, et al,) or of the mind (Buddhism,) of society (Confucianism,) tranformation via evolution (Samkhya, Darwinism,) or even transformation of base medal into gold by the materialist alchemists.
Can anyone come up with a religion where transformation isn't a part of it?