The Wedding of Jesus

yes, it's a bloody good yarn. Maybe you could pretend this story was channelled to you, via secret masters? You'd make a killing on the Guru-circuit! Book tours, a neat little lecture tour... the possibilities are endless.

On a more serious note... why would it matter if Jesus was married , or not? Does that make his message different? I'm not an intellectual, as you can probably tell, yet I don't understand why it would matter? Maybe, on a primative level, it would matter -- his Holy seed, possible decendants, yada yada, and yes, maybe, today it might matter -- women bishops, et cetera, catholic female priests, et cetera, but, beyond that... how would christianity change? Would all christians become Jews by default? Would Catholics allow their priests to marry? Endless questions, posts like this bring... and you might have even inspired me to go and have a lookie-see at my NT. Thanks for that (I think).

Well, what can I say? Let us take Mat. 5:17-19. Christians use verse 17 to claim that Jesus came to fulfill ALL the Law down to the letter, which Paul confirms in Ephe. 2:15 that, by doing so, Jesus abolished it on the cross. The first commandment ever given in Gen. 1:28 was to get married, to grow and to multiply. If Jesus was not married, he did not fulfill all the Law. Therefore, Christianity has proved to be a contradiction. Does it answer you question above?
Ben
 
If you believe that, of 12 male disciples, one had been chosen by Jesus to be his beloved one, sorry, but my opinion is that you are implying that Jesus was a homosexual. That's terrible even for me to think about.

Does love to you necessarily imply sex? In that case, perhaps you'd best expunge the section of the Old -and therefore obsolete, or should I say blessedly overridden, rather, gloriously abrogated :)))- Testament wherein David is said to have a unique fondness for another beloved John, Jonathan:

Saith David (reportedly):
"... very pleasant hast thou [Jonathan] been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women." (Source)

Apparently, even though David was married, he, too, had a beloved John.


Serv
 
Does love to you necessarily imply sex? In that case, perhaps you'd best expunge the section of the Old -and therefore obsolete, or should I say blessedly overridden, rather, gloriously abrogated :)))- Testament wherein David is said to have a unique fondness for another beloved John, Jonathan:

Saith David (reportedly):
"... very pleasant hast thou [Jonathan] been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women." (Source)

Apparently, even though David was married, he, too, had a beloved John.


Serv

The "loving" relationship of Jesus to Mary Magdala does not prove marriage or heterosexual love producing offspring. It seems that the issue was important to those among his disciples. With 12 apostles, why would Jesus consider John to be his "beloved" ahead of the other 11 men? Mary makes more sense as the "beloved apostle." The banned gospels more strongly suggest a love and possibly sexual relationship of Jesus and Mary.

The evidence to the contrary is the story of the crowd approaching Jesus in the garden with Judas to betray him. Jesus was with a naked young boy who frightened by the encounter dropped a loose loin cloth as he ran off. This seems very homosexual in nature. There was the loving relationship Jesus had with a family of followers in a banned gospel. Jesus spent the night with a young boy, "teaching him" secrets. That is strongly suggestive. Think of the thousands of Catholic priests "teaching" young boys while having homosexual relations with them.

It is possible that Jesus was a homosexual but also could have had a sexual relationship with a woman (bisexual?) I mean no offence to my gay friends here on the forum. That does not lessen the moral meaning of his teachings, his healing, his command to give to the poor, feed the hungry, and apply justice to society.

The God impregnated virgin birth story and the death with later resurrection of Jesus are clearly a borrowed Pagan myth from dozens of older religions. I fail to see how an intelligent person can believe in those stories with modern education in science and reason.

I still respect the teachings of Jesus in the middle portions of the gospels, ignoring the superstition of the birth and resurrection bollocks. Whether Jesus was married or single, gay, straight or bisexual is not important to me. Shed the superstition and listen to what Jesus supposedly said.

Amergin
 
Well, what can I say? Let us take Mat. 5:17-19. Christians use verse 17 to claim that Jesus came to fulfill ALL the Law down to the letter, which Paul confirms in Ephe. 2:15 that, by doing so, Jesus abolished it on the cross. The first commandment ever given in Gen. 1:28 was to get married, to grow and to multiply. If Jesus was not married, he did not fulfill all the Law. Therefore, Christianity has proved to be a contradiction. Does it answer you question above?
Ben

I wasn't knocking you, Ben -- it's compelling reading. But, to answer your response, here...

You are assuming that Jesus wasn't actually celibate. Gnostics, Essenes, Cathars -- all of their doctrines align celibacy with religious purity based on the whole body/spirit duality -- the pleasures of the flesh making them focus on body, and not spirit, means such activities take you further away from the God/The Spirit. Jesus might not have ever married, nor had sex. Perfect, holy types often don't: they unite with God instead.

You're assuming that Jesus felt it neccessary to be a "proper" Jew. I don't think he followed Mosaic Law. If he did, he'd be Jesus the King of The Jews.

You claim Marks' gospel states that Jesus came to fulfill ALL the law -- but I have to ask, which law? whose law? God's Law? Perhaps so. But a Jewish God's law? I think Jesus himself said he came to show a "new covenant", not antinominalism; blindly adhering to dogma and ritual law concerning purity and rightness in the eyes of God, but a "way of the heart". This... new covenant between God and man that Jesus spoke of then must contrast with the law given on Mount Sinai. Theoretically, at least.

If Jesus was a "true Jew", then there would be no Christianity and all christians would call themselves Jews. The Jesus of the Bible scorned the actions of those in the temple, ursurers, we are told, and Jesus angrily ran about flipping over their tables, telling them that this was God's house. If he was a Jew, then he was a radical. And, if he was such a radical, why should he care if he was married, or not?

After all, he felt God spoke directly to him, that God was his father, a father who he always aimed to please. Why would he disregard the law of his father? He would surely only do this if he was either,

a) a wannabe guru snake-oil seller,
b) he believed what he was doing was right in the eyes of God, or
c) the accounts of his life are inaccurate and incomplete, and the reason for this is because successive Holy Fathers over the years have trimmed away the bits they don't like to support the notion that Jesus was an immortal, godly type of Messiah because people with power do not want men to meet Jesus, the man.

But, what if Jesus was married, or if he did sleep with Mary Magdelene, and if they had children? Would those genetic decendants of Jesus and Mary have some greater importance in the world? Would you then have the genetic material of God?

Preposterous, right?

Yet, to me, no more preposterous than thinking Christ failed, and was a hypocrite...
 
The evidence to the contrary is the story of the crowd approaching Jesus in the garden with Judas to betray him. Jesus was with a naked young boy who frightened by the encounter dropped a loose loin cloth as he ran off. This seems very homosexual in nature ...

That is true and is something I forgot. Thank you for reminding me. As I recall, that appears in the Gospel of Mark and there was, too, a (suppressed) "secret" Gospel of Mark which makes of this young man Jesus' catamite instead of disciple. But I leave that to the author of the secret gospel to defend. I, personally, and given the Platonic (and as Sam has rightly said, Esssenic) nature of early Christianity, am inclined to view most relationships, especially among the men, as, well, "Platonic" in nature, and not in the sense of pederasty, I might add. I consider it no more noteworthy that Jesus had a "beloved" disciple than that I have what I call a "best" friend. And that, as with most things of this nature, is just my personal viewpoint.



Serv
 
Hi all —
Apart from discussions regarding the authenticity of texts such as 'The Secret Gospel of Mark', and might I say that it's curious that some people make a great fuss of trying to discredit the authenticity of the Canonical texts, but those same people will suspend all critical faculties when the text is 'secret' or 'gnostic' or in some other way heterodox ...

What is evident is that the text is being read with a contemporary sensibility where sexual orientation and activity is forefront. So any sign of friendship is immediately interpreted as signifying a sexual relationship ...

If, on the other hand, the 'secret' Gospel of Mark is, as its supporters claim, a spiritual text intended for the gnostic, the esoterist, the spiritual aspirant, then I would suggest an esoteric, that is a spiritual and not a salacious, reading was the one intended by its author.

If one argues in support of the material reading, then the whole premise of the 'spiritual gospel' is compromised.

The most likely explanation is that 'Secret Mark' is a forgery, composed some time in the 2nd century, a gnostic spin on the resurrection of Lazarus.

Clement of Alexandria, in whom we have the only reference to the gospel, refers it to a fabrication of the followers of Carpocrates, the founder of a gnostic sect from the first half of the 2nd century.

From Irenaeus we discover the Carpocrates held that Christ was not divine. By the process of anamnesis he "remembered those things which he had witnessed within the sphere of the unbegotten God". Thus he was able to free himself from the material powers (Archons, the Demiurge, etc.).

Carpocratians believed they themselves could transcend the material realm, and therefore were no longer bound by moral law, which was based on the material powers, or by any other morality, which, they held, was mere human opinion.

The belief follows that not only is nothing forbidden them by virtue of their spiritual superiority, it is also encumbent upon them to 'try anything and everything', to use up every possible condition of earthly life to free the soul to ascend to the higher — anything not done holds the soul back.

It's a common 'gnostic' teaching and it pops up again and again, it's a great excuse for the leader to shag everything that moves ... Alistair Crowley was an exponent of the rule.

Good bless,

Thomas
 
Thomas, as usual is sooooo correct. The whole idea of "hidden" texts (the vast majority of the Gnostic texts) imo just do not make sense. If G!d is G!d and we are H!s Children, why would he hide the truth from us. This is what I find the ultimate argument against the versions of creatinism that hold that fossils are left "to mislead us".

By all means, apply textual and scientific criticism to the Scriptures. But as Thomas says, be even handed.
 
Does love to you necessarily imply sex? In that case, perhaps you'd best expunge the section of the Old -and therefore obsolete, or should I say blessedly overridden, rather, gloriously abrogated :)))- Testament wherein David is said to have a unique fondness for another beloved John, Jonathan:

Saith David (reportedly):
"... very pleasant hast thou [Jonathan] been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women." (Source)

Apparently, even though David was married, he, too, had a beloved John.


Serv


Yes, usually, love implies sex when one from among 12 equally close to us is preferred to the others. And in the case of David and Jonathan, for three reasons the relationship had nothing to do with sex. First of all, it was not the preference of one from a number of many; second, the text says that "thy love to me goes beyond that of women." It means that the love between David and Jonathan was different from that between a man and a woman. Love between a man and a woman, involves sex by 101%. Otherwise, it is not love. It didn't at all between David and Jonathan. The 3rd reason is that, both carried normal sexual lives with their own wives.
Ben
 
I wasn't knocking you, Ben -- it's compelling reading. But, to answer your response, here...

You are assuming that Jesus wasn't actually celibate. Gnostics, Essenes, Cathars -- all of their doctrines align celibacy with religious purity based on the whole body/spirit duality -- the pleasures of the flesh making them focus on body, and not spirit, means such activities take you further away from the God/The Spirit. Jesus might not have ever married, nor had sex. Perfect, holy types often don't: they unite with God instead.

You're assuming that Jesus felt it neccessary to be a "proper" Jew. I don't think he followed Mosaic Law. If he did, he'd be Jesus the King of The Jews.

You claim Marks' gospel states that Jesus came to fulfill ALL the law -- but I have to ask, which law? whose law? God's Law? Perhaps so. But a Jewish God's law? I think Jesus himself said he came to show a "new covenant", not antinominalism; blindly adhering to dogma and ritual law concerning purity and rightness in the eyes of God, but a "way of the heart". This... new covenant between God and man that Jesus spoke of then must contrast with the law given on Mount Sinai. Theoretically, at least.

If Jesus was a "true Jew", then there would be no Christianity and all christians would call themselves Jews. The Jesus of the Bible scorned the actions of those in the temple, ursurers, we are told, and Jesus angrily ran about flipping over their tables, telling them that this was God's house. If he was a Jew, then he was a radical. And, if he was such a radical, why should he care if he was married, or not?

After all, he felt God spoke directly to him, that God was his father, a father who he always aimed to please. Why would he disregard the law of his father? He would surely only do this if he was either,

a) a wannabe guru snake-oil seller,
b) he believed what he was doing was right in the eyes of God, or
c) the accounts of his life are inaccurate and incomplete, and the reason for this is because successive Holy Fathers over the years have trimmed away the bits they don't like to support the notion that Jesus was an immortal, godly type of Messiah because people with power do not want men to meet Jesus, the man.

But, what if Jesus was married, or if he did sleep with Mary Magdelene, and if they had children? Would those genetic decendants of Jesus and Mary have some greater importance in the world? Would you then have the genetic material of God?

Preposterous, right?

Yet, to me, no more preposterous than thinking Christ failed, and was a hypocrite...


Yes, the question is preposterous indeed. The genetic descendants of Jesus would have no such a thing as generic material of God, first of all, because God is not like a man to have genetic material. Second, Jesus had no corporeal relation with God, because God is incorporeal. He, Jesus himself, declared that God is a Spirit. (John 4:24) Spirits don't have genetic material.

Then, there is something you have said above that has caught my attention: "If Jesus was a 'true Jew,' there would be no Christianity at all." Since there is Christianity, Jesus was not a Jew. With this statement of yours, you have, all of a sudden, solved all the contradictions of the NT. This brings about the truth that Jesus must have been a Greek man. Hence, the Hellenistic doctrine which pervades the NT throughout.
Ben
 
... And in the case of David and Jonathan, for three reasons the relationship had nothing to do with sex. First of all, it was not the preference of one from a number of many; second, the text says that "thy love to me goes beyond that of women." It means that the love between David and Jonathan was different from that between a man and a woman.

It didn't at all between David and Jonathan. The 3rd reason is that, both carried normal sexual lives with their own wives.

In the great marketplace of ideas, your scales, weights and measures often seem out of balance. To your exegesis, I prefer, if only because the results were more amusing, Yael Dayan's upsetting of the Knesset back in 1993:

Source:

JERUSALEM — Debate in the Israeli Parliament, rarely decorous these days, turned into bedlam Wednesday when a liberal member, arguing for equal rights for gays and lesbians in the army, suggested that ancient Israel's greatest king, David, was a homosexual--and quoted the Bible to try to prove it.

Mourning the death of Jonathan in a disastrous battle with the Philistines, David calls him "most dear to me" and says, "Your love for me was wonderful, surpassing the love of women."

But even as Yael Dayan, one of the Labor Party's iconoclasts, began quoting from David's famous lament in the Second Book of Samuel, Shaul Yahalom of the National Religious Party shouted at her and other liberals: "All of you are sick! All of you should be hospitalized!"

The ensuing tumult surpassed even the angry denunciations of Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin that have become the regular fare at the Knesset, the Israeli Parliament. Religious members from all parties called on Rabin and the Knesset Speaker to punish Dayan.

"Chutzpah! Chutzpah! Scandal!" shouted Rabbi Hanan Porat, a member of the National Religious Party. "Get her down from there!"

Ben Masada said:
Love between a man and a woman, involves sex by 101%. Otherwise, it is not love.

Really? That must mean that I don't love my mum or my sisters or my daughter or ...

Serv
 
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Ben Masada said:
Othodox Rabbis! Any Orthodox man with a beard and teaching some children is looked at as a Rabbi.
nonsense. semikhah is semikhah. if you don't have semikhah, you can't call yourself a rabbi; i understand the etymological and cultural aspects of the title (as per the way people use the word "rebbe" in its hasidic sense; i have lots of "rebbes", some of whom are neither orthodox, nor men, nor jewish); however, this is a very different sense. the formal title is hardly as lax as you suggest.

A real Rabbi from University Yeshivah will never climb higher than a junior Rabbi if he is not a married man.
look; that is not a function of it being necessary to be a rabbi, but simply something that is expected of a male above a certain age. an unmarried man, rabbi or otherwise, of above that age is cause for comment, specifically: "i wonder how he gets his jollies, then?" it being assumed that everyone needs some form of sexual outlet. in orthodoxy, this means being married. however, this cultural context cannot seriously be imposed upon that of jesus.

Jesus, although married at age 30, never became a senior Rabbi, probably for having been a single man up to that age.
well, rabbi aqiba didn't even become religious until he was 40 and didn't even get married until after that - and he is a) roughly contemporary with jesus and b) about as "senior" as you like!

I don't know about it in the Diaspora, but here in Israel, I have never met a unmarried senior Rabbi.
the way rabbinic seniority works in the modern israeli context is hardly something one can extrapolate from, as it is both uniquely modern and uniquely pernicious. are you suggesting that if jesus was around now, he'd be trying to hang with ovadia yosef?

And a commandment is not set aside because a Jew is about to die.
unless, by setting it aside, you can prevent him (or anyone, not just jews) from dying, unless it's one of the three that can't be broken for that.

I married a very religious Yemanite lady, the daughter of an old fashioned Rabbi here in Gedera
and if you're both still religious, i find your positions completely peculiar compared to the norms, even for the teimani context.

the text says that "thy love to me goes beyond that of women." It means that the love between David and Jonathan was different from that between a man and a woman. Love between a man and a woman, involves sex by 101%. Otherwise, it is not love. It didn't at all between David and Jonathan. The 3rd reason is that, both carried normal sexual lives with their own wives.
erm... that really doesn't prove anything, even if this line of argument was remotely convincing. i know it's upsetting to people who don't care for homosexuality, but i find it rather odd that G!D should apparently build this stuff into our DNA and those of numerous animal species if it has no practical benefit. regardless of what the "religious parties" in israel might think. i hardly think they merit our admiration as upholders of fair-mindedness.

Then, there is something you have said above that has caught my attention: "If Jesus was a 'true Jew,' there would be no Christianity at all." Since there is Christianity, Jesus was not a Jew. With this statement of yours, you have, all of a sudden, solved all the contradictions of the NT. This brings about the truth that Jesus must have been a Greek man. Hence, the Hellenistic doctrine which pervades the NT throughout.
dude, what is it with you? why can't you deal with anything ambiguous or complex? why has everything got to be so black and white with you? this isn't the feckin' knesset, y'know. servetus' quote is a case in point.

Thomas said:
John 1:38 actually qualifies the term: '(which is to say, Master)', to signify its general honorific usage rather than its particular meaning in Jewish ecclesiology.
so, in other words, he's not using as per a guy-with-semikhah-in-the-normative-tradition, but as a "you're my teacher so i'm going to give you the teacher honorific" - i.e., as for example, one might use the term "rebbe".

It's a common 'gnostic' teaching and it pops up again and again, it's a great excuse for the leader to shag everything that moves ... Alistair Crowley was an exponent of the rule.
true dat and worth pointing out.

radarmark said:
Thomas, as usual is sooooo correct. The whole idea of "hidden" texts (the vast majority of the Gnostic texts) imo just do not make sense. If G!d is G!d and we are H!s Children, why would he hide the truth from us. This is what I find the ultimate argument against the versions of creatinism that hold that fossils are left "to mislead us".
yes, that's a good point too - even our "hidden" texts are now publicly available, but in point of fact, that doesn't really make them any less hidden, as the keys to understand them are extraordinarily hard to grasp. hidden texts are elitist of course, but i don't think that's such a bad thing; they're just really, really technical and don't make a great deal of sense to the lay person.

By all means, apply textual and scientific criticism to the Scriptures. But as Thomas says, be even handed.
hah, yes, theosophists - stanzas of dyzan, anyone? hehe.

Sam Albion said:
If Jesus was a "true Jew", then there would be no Christianity and all christians would call themselves Jews.
i don't think that's the point here; what jesus did or didn't do or was or wasn't, becomes entirely a matter of conjecture, projection and belief within a couple of generations and certainly by the time stuff starts to get written down or the early church splits off from judaism officially. it's messy, not straightforward and i don't think we help by projecting from even further off.

If he was a Jew, then he was a radical.
now here, we can agree. i find jesus quite interesting, i can locate him in the jewish context but i don't think he's a "normative rabbinic" figure for all the reasons stated. he is closest to, well, the sorts of charismatic figures that in judaism have always been a cause of challenge, divisiveness and ultimately false messiahship. judaism is an elastic definition, but eventually it snaps. i'm just interested in the interface, i don't feel i have to particularly feel strongly about someone who isn't in what ends up being the normative tradition that i do adhere to.

b'shalom

bananabrain
 
Thomas, as usual is sooooo correct. The whole idea of "hidden" texts (the vast majority of the Gnostic texts) imo just do not make sense. If G!d is G!d and we are H!s Children, why would he hide the truth from us. This is what I find the ultimate argument against the versions of creatinism that hold that fossils are left "to mislead us".

Actually, here Thomas is wrong. And so are you (!) imho. The Apocrypal texts, such as those found at Nag Hammadi, were not hidden by God; they were hidden by men, and possibly women, because the Church, in its attempt to codify and neaten the doctrines of Christianity destroyed and disputed a great deal of doctrine that they thought was not correct. The gnostic gospels are not secrets any longer, but when they were hidden away they were dangerous, heretical texts, and considered so dangerous the church did not want silly humans like you and I to ever lay eyes upon them. In fact, even in my lifetime, I and my father both were told by priests that reading such doctrines would mean we went to hell. Thankfully, these documents were saved, not by God, but by men, and possibly women, with the foresight to hope a time would come when we could safely dig up the jars and look at things the church did not want us to see.

The first council of Nicaea began compiling a uniform doctrine around 325 AD -- prior to that, different sects within the broad consideration of "Christian" believed in many diverse ways. Some followers of Jesus believed Jesus was human, others divine. Some thought Jesus was born of a virgin and because begotten, and not created, people surmised Jesus had no belly button. They debated whether or not Jesus was Gods' son, and if he was, what did that say about God? They came up with the Nicene Creed, and that was that. The synods got together, and created statements of belief, they eventually became codified, and all those who believed in different strains of the doctrine were exterminated at the hands of a new, pretentious Roman Church desperate to have dominion. Anyone who didn't agree with the new rules died. Murdered. Men, women, children, cattle. Burnt houses. Burning books. Totalitarianism at its most grandiose and hypocritical.

None of this is of God. All the acts of men, desperate, power hungry, immature men who believed that they could murder in the name of God.

Ben, you said:

"Yes, the question is preposterous indeed. The genetic descendants of Jesus would have no such a thing as generic material of God, first of all, because God is not like a man to have genetic material. Second, Jesus had no corporeal relation with God, because God is incorporeal. He, Jesus himself, declared that God is a Spirit. (John 4:24) Spirits don't have genetic material.

Then, there is something you have said above that has caught my attention: "If Jesus was a 'true Jew,' there would be no Christianity at all." Since there is Christianity, Jesus was not a Jew. With this statement of yours, you have, all of a sudden, solved all the contradictions of the NT. This brings about the truth that Jesus must have been a Greek man. Hence, the Hellenistic doctrine which pervades the NT throughout".

and yes, you're taking the mickey -- but maybe the story of Jesus WAS Hellenically influenced -- people have forever suggested similiarities between Jesus and Plato/Socrates, and Plato did exist at the time of the formation of the Nicene Creed. I've even heard it said that Socrates old hemlock routine may have been Jesus' key to dying and being resurrected so successfully. Who knows. But, in taking the mickey, you hit the nail on the head -- it is all pure speculation. From both me, and you.
 
The most likely explanation is that 'Secret Mark' is a forgery, composed some time in the 2nd century, a gnostic spin on the resurrection of Lazarus.

Clement of Alexandria, in whom we have the only reference to the gospel, refers it to a fabrication of the followers of Carpocrates, the founder of a gnostic sect from the first half of the 2nd century.
[FONT=&quot]But in that letter, Clement does not refer to the so-called Secret or Mystic Gospel of Mark as a fabrication of the followers of Carpocrates. On the contrary, he claims that the Carpocratian version is not the same version as the one they possess in the Alexandrian Church, but a mutilated version of that Gospel. Accordingly, the Secret or Mystic Gospel of Mark has nothing what-so-ever to do with Carpocrates.[/FONT]
 
In the great marketplace of ideas, your scales, weights and measures often seem out of balance. To your exegesis, I prefer, if only because the results were more amusing, Yael Dayan's upsetting of the Knesset back in 1993:

Really? That must mean that I don't love my mum or my sisters or my daughter or ...

Serv

I remember that chapter about Yael Dayan in the Knesset. I even sent her a letter, emphasizing that I did not consider her arrogance to quote David and Jonathan to justify homosexuality as a scandal or heresy because I could see that her purpose was based on the preconceived notions to safeguard her style of life, as she is a lesbian. Therefore, that I would not take it as an offense. That I understood her predicament. She did not answer. Perhaps she thought I was one of the Haredim who, likewise, must have sent her many letters.

Does the love to one's mum require sex? No. So, save your sarchasm. I meant love between husbands and wives, which is 101% based on sex. And that's "love" between quotation marks. It is more of a lower passion that real love. Unless in the later years when sex is no longer the link to keep the couple together, as it is replaced by habit.
Ben
 
"i wonder how he gets his jollies, then?" it being assumed that everyone needs some form of sexual outlet. in orthodoxy, this means being married. however, this cultural context cannot seriously be imposed upon that of jesus.

Sex is not the only way to get one's jollies. There are a few other ways to sublimate unsatisfied emotions.

well, rabbi aqiba didn't even become religious until he was 40 and didn't even get married until after that - and he is a) roughly contemporary with jesus and b) about as "senior" as you like!

Neither was he a Rabbi until within his 40's. That's why, perhaps, he had to get married at 40+.

the way rabbinic seniority works in the modern israeli context is hardly something one can extrapolate from, as it is both uniquely modern and uniquely pernicious. are you suggesting that if jesus was around now, he'd be trying to hang with ovadia yosef?

Well, you believe in afterlife, don't you? They must be hanging with each other now, since both are dead.

and if you're both still religious, i find your positions completely peculiar compared to the norms, even for the teimani context.

I am a widower.

erm... that really doesn't prove anything, even if this line of argument was remotely convincing. i know it's upsetting to people who don't care for homosexuality, but i find it rather odd that G!D should apparently build this stuff into our DNA and those of numerous animal species if it has no practical benefit. regardless of what the "religious parties" in israel might think. i hardly think they merit our admiration as upholders of fair-mindedness.

Adonai has nothing to do with what men have chosen to do with their free will. He has granted us with intellect to reason for our own good. If we go against nature, we become no different from the irrational animal that is activated by instincts, which acknowledges no restrain. Fair-mindedness must be subject to Reason, which in man must be part of his nature to curb distorted emotions.

Ben
 
Does the love to one's mum require sex? No. So, save your sarchasm. I meant love between husbands and wives ...

I have no sarcasm in this case to save because I was not being sarcastic. I responded to what you said, not to what you meant to say. And between those two, what you said and what you meant to say, lies a considerable difference. Thank you, at any rate, for clarifying.

Serv
 
I have no sarcasm in this case to save because I was not being sarcastic. I responded to what you said, not to what you meant to say. And between those two, what you said and what you meant to say, lies a considerable difference. Thank you, at any rate, for clarifying.

Serv

And to clarify further, I never say something I didn't mean to.
Ben
 
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