Question: Do we as Christians speak with boldness and confidence about Jesus and share God's word or are we reserved and more concerned about how people perceive us?
Not being a professed Christian, I don't really feel like I have anything too pertinent to add to this discussion as far as my personal sentiment goes. However, I
am compelled to contribute an observation.
I don't know exactly what is meant when "boldness" is used here. But, I can say that there is no question in my mind that in America, the average person that I have met which does not claim to be a Christian usually presents one of two somewhat overlapping complaints that they cannot get past:
1) They are taken back by the moral values of Christianity.
2) They are taken back by the zeal of those that have preached to them at some point.
Americans that are looking into religion don't want anything crammed down their throat, and I am only being totally honest when I say that MANY PEOPLE turn away from interest in Christianity because they are inflamed at how readily some Christians feel compelled to tell you...at that, to vehemently insist...that they have the way of God, and that its the only Way. This really makes some people pretty angry. In an America that becomes more and more relativistic, and which is more jaded to religion, every year, this particular trait in some Christians will contribute to losing a lot of followers. It's not that people necessarily reject the Christian doctrine, they are simply made to feel more and more cautious and skeptical in today's world. Someone that bounds into their life proclaiming the glory of God ends up getting filed away in the minds of many along with the guy that shows up on Food Dehydrater infomercials yelling," You have to buy this product! It's the greatest thing ever made! You
need to get this, and you need to do it now because time is running out!" Unfortunately, to most Americans, this kind of trumpeting is simply a hoax designed to fool them. In that respect, Christians do need to change with the times, like everyone else. That may mean not being too brazen about religion.
Note, however, that I am not nearly accusing all Christians of these things... just some. What I have to say is based much more on people I've talked to that
aren't Christians,
or people that come from Christian families yet have grown up to question whether or not they really want to call themselves Christians.