Surah 4 - sorry there are many verses to post in this chapter so I shall try to keep my personal comments to a minimum or you will be reading forever (although it is healthier than sleeping pills).
Surah 4 is called an-nisa (meaning the women). Despite it's name it doesn't just deal with women but more with family issues.
Give unto orphans their wealth. Exchange not the good for the bad (in your management thereof) nor absorb their wealth into your own wealth. Lo! that would be a great sin. (4:2)
Much is said in Islam about orphans and protecting them, I can only assume that during the time of Prophet Mohammad (pbut) that they were badly treated and the assets of their dead parents used up by whoever took in the orphan. The Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) was orphaned at quite an early age and went to live with his grandfather, upon his death he went to live with his uncle.
To those weak of understanding Make not over your property, which Allah hath made a means of support for you, but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice. (4:5)
I have used Yusufali's translation for this verse as Pickthal refers to the weak of understanding as the 'foolish' and I didn't want there to be any misunderstanding but it basically means the mentally ill or mentally impared. So this doesn't mean keep their assets, it just means don't hand them over to someone not able to manage thier own affairs but treat them kindly and look after them.
Prove orphans till they reach the marriageable age; then, if ye find them of sound judgment, deliver over unto them their fortune; and devour it not by squandering and in haste lest they should grow up Whoso (of the guardians) is rich, let him abstain generously (from taking of the property of orphans); and whoso is poor let him take thereof in reason (for his guardianship). And when ye deliver up their fortune unto orphans, have (the transaction) witnessed in their presence. Allah sufficeth as a Reckoner. (4:6)
I just love the social justice in the Quran.
This is saying not to use up an orphans assets wastefully as they grow up or for your own desires. If the guardian has money he should take none of the assets. If the guardian is poor he can take a reasonable portion.
Unto the men (of a family) belongeth a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, and unto the women a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, whether it be little or much - a legal share. (4:7)
Look 1400 years ago women were given their legal share of inheritance, that is over a thousand years before women in my country.
And when kinsfolk and orphans and the needy are present at the division (of the heritage), bestow on them therefrom and speak kindly unto them. (4:8)
Share it around.
You don't need to read this verse but I didn't want to mention my comment without showing the verse.
Allah chargeth you concerning (the provision for) your children: to the male the equivalent of the portion of two females, and if there be women more than two, then theirs is two-thirds of the inheritance, and if there be one (only) then the half. And to each of his parents a sixth of the inheritance, if he have a son; and if he have no son and his parents are his heirs, then to his mother appertaineth the third; and if he have brethren, then to his mother appertaineth the sixth, after any legacy he may have bequeathed, or debt (hath been paid). Your parents and your children: Ye know not which of them is nearer unto you in usefulness. It is an injunction from Allah. Lo! Allah is Knower, Wise. (4:11)
So inheritance is set out, to ensure everyone gets a fair share and you don't get family squabbles about who gets what. Women get half the amount of men for good reason. In Islamic society husbands are not allowed to spend their wives money, it is hers to keep and spend as she likes. So if a man inherits and he has an unmarried sister he is legally responsible for her keep but cannot ask her to spend any of her portion of the inheritance. Of course if the sister marries then her husband will inherit a larger portion from his family and so on. I find this a very fair system for society, as it is generally men that are the main breadwinners in Muslim families. Women are permitted to work but only if they want to, they cannot be made to go out to work.
Again the next verse is just to confirm my comment:
And unto you belongeth a half of that which your wives leave, if they have no child; but if they have a child then unto you the fourth of that which they leave, after any legacy they may have bequeathed, or debt (they may have contracted, hath been paid). And unto them belongeth the fourth of that which ye leave if ye have no child, but if ye have a child then the eighth of that which ye leave, after any legacy ye may have bequeathed, or debt (ye may have contracted, hath been paid). And if a man or a woman have a distant heir (having left neither parent nor child), and he (or she) have a brother or a sister (only on the mother's side) then to each of them twain (the brother and the sister) the sixth, and if they be more than two, then they shall be sharers in the third, after any legacy that may have been bequeathed or debt (contracted) not injuring (the heirs by willing away more than a third of the heritage) hath been paid. A commandment from Allah. Allah is Knower, Indulgent. (4:12)
So here is a turn up for the books. A wife's money is her own but if she dies most of that money goes to her children, not her husband. Basically men are responsible for themselves financially and also for their women folk (wives, widowed mother, unmarried sisters, divorced sisters not remarried plus their children - see why so many Arabic men look haggared and smoke so much
).
O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may Take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good. (4:19)
I have used Yusufali again as it is an easier read than Pickthal. So women cannot be forced into marriage. This verse also deals with divorce, it says do not be mean to your wife so you can divorce her and take back part of her dowery (if a woman asks for a divorce she should pay her dowery or a part of it back, so some men used to treat their wives badly to force the woman to seek divorce).
And if ye wish to exchange one wife for another and ye have given unto one of them a sum of money (however great), take nothing from it. Would ye take it by the way of calumny and open wrong? (4:20)
Self explanatory, if you divorce a good wife because you want to marry the newer model you cannot take any of her dowry back as there is no fault on her.
There are then verses that say who you can and cannot marry which deals with incest and the like.
And whoso is not able to afford to marry free, believing women, let them marry from the believing maids whom your right hands possess. Allah knoweth best (concerning) your faith. Ye (proceed) one from another; so wed them by permission of their folk, and give unto them their portions in kindness, they being honest, not debauched nor of loose conduct. And if when they are honourably married they commit lewdness they shall incur the half of the punishment (prescribed) for free women (in that case). This is for him among you who feareth to commit sin. But to have patience would be better for you. Allah is Forgiving, Merciful. (4:25)
I don't want to get into the issue of owning slaves as I have dealt with that in great detail on another thread but I put this verse in to show that a woman that has been a slave and is now married to a Muslim, gets half the punishment of a free Muslim woman (one that has never been a slave) if she commits lewdness. Please also note the bit in bold, in most places of the Quran where a punishment is stated the verse invariably states that it is better to have patience (ie not give the punishment).
And covet not the thing in which Allah hath made some of you excel others. Unto men a fortune from that which they have earned, and unto women a fortune from that which they have earned. (Envy not one another) but ask Allah of His bounty. Lo! Allah is ever Knower of all things. (4:32)
Basically don't be jealousy of each other, we get what we earn.
And if ye fear a breach between them twain (the man and wife), appoint an arbiter from his folk and an arbiter from her folk. If they desire amendment Allah will make them of one mind. Lo! Allah is ever Knower, Aware. (4:35)
Look, marriage guidance councelling 1400 years ago
I have to say Muslims take this very seriously indeed as Allah does not like divorce. At the beginning of last year I was really struggling with the difference in culture between my hubby and I, so I did the 'I want a divorce, I am going home to mother' bit. Within 1 hour the apartment was full of people, parents, sister, uncles, the Imam and his wife (who was appointed to speak on my behalf) and loads of people I didin't know and they wanted to know what each of them could do to make my life in their culture easier. By the time they left I was madly in love with my hubby again.
And serve Allah. Ascribe no thing as partner unto Him. (Show) kindness unto parents, and unto near kindred, and orphans, and the needy, and unto the neighbour who is of kin (unto you) and the neighbour who is not of kin, and the fellow-traveller and the wayfarer and (the slaves) whom your right hands possess. Lo! Allah loveth not such as are proud and boastful, (4:36)
Basically be kind to everyone including your slaves and total strangers.
Lo! Allah commandeth you that ye restore deposits to their owners, and, if ye judge between mankind, that ye judge justly. Lo! comely is this which Allah admonisheth you. Lo! Allah is ever Hearer, Seer (4:58)
Restore trusts to their rightful owners and if you are called to judge who is the rightful owner do it justly.
How should ye not fight for the cause of Allah and of the feeble among men and of the women and the children who are crying: Our Lord! Bring us forth from out this town of which the people are oppressors! Oh, give us from thy presence some protecting friend! Oh, give us from Thy presence some defender! (4:75)
Fight for the protection of the oppressed and weak, yes that means physically fight if necessary.
Whoso interveneth in a good cause will have the reward thereof, and whoso interveneth in an evil cause will bear the consequence thereof. Allah overseeth all things. (4:85)
As we reap so shall we sow (that is from the Bible isn't it?).
When ye are greeted with a greeting, greet ye with a better than it or return it. Lo! Allah taketh count of all things. (4:86)
The Quran even deals with politeness in saying hello.
And whoso committeth a delinquency or crime, then throweth (the blame) thereof upon the innocent, hath burdened himself with falsehood and a flagrant crime. (4:112)
Do not blame others for your wrong doings.
Ye will not be able to deal equally between (your) wives, however much ye wish (to do so). But turn not altogether away (from one), leaving her as in suspense. If ye do good and keep from evil, lo! Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful. (4:129)
You may not agree with polygamy, as I do not unless under very severe circumstances, however it was normal in those days. This basically says if you marry a younger prettier wife do not ignore your older wife. The husband still has a duty to care for her and to sleep with her (fulfilling her needs).
O ye who believe! Be ye staunch in justice, witnesses for Allah, even though it be against yourselves or (your) parents or (your) kindred, whether (the case be of) a rich man or a poor man, for Allah is nearer unto both (them ye are). So follow not passion lest ye lapse (from truth) and if ye lapse or fall away, then lo! Allah is ever Informed of what ye do. (4:135)
We must be honest witnesses, even against ourselves.
Allah loveth not the utterance of harsh speech save by one who hath been wronged. Allah is ever Hearer, Knower (4:148)
This sounds like it means speak quietly because G-d doesn't like loud voices but what it is talking about is that you should not petition the 'government' (to use a modern term) unless you have been wronged. So don't make false claims.
Anyone still with me - very well done and thank you for your patience and interest.
Salaam