T H I N K before you post.

I just don't see/understand how I can see I am not a good person, yet people that are obviously not me, and haven't met me, can say I'm a good person.... If they are true, then what on Earth does that say about my judge of character?? And if you cannot see who you are yourself yet others can, what does that mean? The THINK method I can of course try and use, but hard.
 
lol Chris, two great posts, I know you 'thought' before each of them (waiting for the new bacronym)

grey, now there was another one I really like, and I think incredibly valuable, however it appears I refuse to use it. Will what I have to say improve upon the silence Now if we all instituted that a tree wouldn't even fall in the forest.

mw, who are you trying to kid? You've been an inspiration to many on this board, and I don't doubt it goes well beyond the virtual environs.

17th. We are all hardest on ourselves. You are aware of your past, and all the snide comments and thoughts that run through your head. We see some of that, you have expressed more of that. Get over it, that freakin armor of yours is deteriorating quickly, that hard shell is transparent, you are love incarnate.
 
Na na, na na, naah naah !
17th's a good guy !
Na na, na na, naah naah !

And Chris...who ever told you that FART required any thinking ?

flow....:p
 
Oh what a good boy, I like a man that understands the futility of arguing with she that must be obeyed :p:D
 
wil said:
It isn't an order, I don't have that authority. But what are your thoughts?
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Are you writing rules for what people should say, or for what people should hear? Both. The tongue reveals, and the ear informs. Why would you want to censor someone and make your own ears ignorant?

I wish to hear lies, I wish to hear the things that are unhelpful, I wish to hear the things that are uninspirational, I wish to hear the things that are unnecessary, and I wish to hear the things that are unkind. I expect to hear those things.

Why? Begin with the first. Ask a liar if they've told the truth and what do you expect to hear? You must hear the lie to catch the lie. If you wish to pre-emptively rebuke a liar then carry on. That is all you've done. Same for all the rest. You have merely pre-emptively rebuked hearing things that you don't like to hear, and I'm fully opposed to that. If someone feels the need to say it, then I wish to hear it. With my own children if I am opposed to what they've said, then I'll wait for them to say it before rebuking them. The rebuke or praise will not be for saying something, but for what caused them to say it. I wish to hear anything and everything that my children or neighbors wish to come to me with, whether I like it or not.
 
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