Rush to Judgement

Kindest Regards, cyberpi!

Confession is a judgment expressed outward, communicating it to other people. It is NOT an internal dialogue. It is a required step that simply can not be skipped.

I am afraid we will have to agree to disagree pertaining to the necessity of "confession" as you have described. I realize it is a major functional component of at least one major denomination of Christianity, and they are welcome to do as they see fit. I do not see any benefit in "confessing my sins" publically, even to a religious leader. Those things I choose to share, I am deliberate about and with purpose. Otherwise, my personal life is mine and mine alone. I do not believe in airing dirty laundry for just anybody to see.

My confessions are made to G-d, and G-d alone. No man need serve as an intercessor. What is between me and G-d, is between me and G-d alone. Unless and if I so choose to share. So, depending what it is you mean by internal dialogue, I am thinking I disagree with the above sentiment.

The "mob" does not judge... they condemn. In the parable of the people wanting to throw stones at a person, the mob wanted to condemn, whereas Jesus pointed the finger and JUDGED the mob. He also JUDGED the person telling her to not SIN anymore. Jesus used judgment, whereas the mob wanted to rush to condemning her by stoning.

Perhaps there may be some poetic conflation of terms, but I believe I said as much about the mob condemning, but a judgement must be passed before condemnation, even if that judgement is reflexive and prejudicial.

I can accept what you say here about Jesus using judgement, even passing judgement. Staying with this example, notice the way in which He does so. So atypical compared with how a regular joe goes about things. Most of us tend to want to force our own views upon others, rather than considering what is the most beneficial for all concerned.

Words do not remove from a person. They add. Jail time, separation from family, being stoned to death... those things remove from a person. Judging with words adds to a person, but condemning with high velocity or high mass projectiles removes from a person.
OK, I'm trying to see where you are coming from, I think I can go along with this.

When Jesus judged the mob, if another mob came along and wanted to attack and stone the first 'uncivil' mob to likewise teach them a lesson... would it be due to Jesus' judgment? Who could instead blame the obedient mob for behaving like dogs, right?

You lost me. Care to expand on this?
 
Kindest Regards, Noctuary! Welcome to CR!

Thank you for your contribution.



Would you care to expand your thought?
A bird's behavior is to fly and lay eggs and feed their chicks. We say that is a bird. A wolf's behavior is to gather in packs and hunt. We say that is a wolf. We don't judge the bird or wolf by what they think. We judge them by their behavior in connection to their species. A human is not what they think. For that is only between themselves. A human is judged on what a human does in the world.

Thought is internal. Action is external to the world.
 
I do not see any benefit in "confessing my sins" publically, even to a religious leader. Those things I choose to share, I am deliberate about and with purpose. Otherwise, my personal life is mine and mine alone. I do not believe in airing dirty laundry for just anybody to see.
A sin is against someone. Is that not someone to confess to? I am not speaking from a religion in stating how important that is. I am speaking from my own personal experience first, and of witnessing those who do it. By the scripture it is equally upon those who hear confession to forgive. Forgiving is not just a mental exercise either... it means re-again placing faith, trust, or belief in that person. It may be a consequence that someone chooses to not forgive... and that choice is what you deny someone by not confessing. I will encourage people to confess, and to not only forgive upon hearing a confession, but to celebrate it more than they celebrate Christmas or any other holiday. It is a choice.

juantoo3 said:
My confessions are made to G-d, and G-d alone.
How does G-d feel about that? Have you only sinned against G-d alone?

Perhaps there may be some poetic conflation of terms, but I believe I said as much about the mob condemning, but a judgement must be passed before condemnation, even if that judgement is reflexive and prejudicial.
It is a person's choice whether to choose from reflexive, selfish, or prejudicial judgment, or by other means. What means of judgment was used to punish, condemn, or punch arrogance in the nose? Personally, I have to counter a reflex. Do an experiment: Hit yourself just below the kneecap... is it your will or an act of your soul that causes your knee to jerk? Nope, you have to exert your will over your own leg to control it. Where is there judgment in a knee jerk? I find that it is a lack of judgment.

I can accept what you say here about Jesus using judgement, even passing judgement. Staying with this example, notice the way in which He does so. So atypical compared with how a regular joe goes about things. Most of us tend to want to force our own views upon others, rather than considering what is the most beneficial for all concerned.
Does the person who judges with words force their views on others, or does the person who uses punishment or argumentum ad baculum force their views on others? I have personally seen yourself and others claim the former, and to deny the latter. I submit that upon hearing words a person has the choice of what to do. Whether to think, to act, to respond, or to ignore.

You lost me. Care to expand on this?
My point is, if Jesus can convince a mob to stop with mere words, then should judging with words be made criminal and NOT politically correct? I say no. Judging should be encouraged. The title and the OP suggests that judgment is the root of condemning, as if it is what caused the mob in the first place. Is Jesus wrong if he points the finger and calls pedophilia a sin, and a pedophiliac a sinner? No. I see that it is a lack of judging that caused the mob, and within them a lack of judgment. If a mob follows with pitchforks over mere words, then I submit it does NOT judge each other or even themselves.

You formerly denounced the society that makes a person feel guilty. Guilt is something that I admire because within it I see a voice from heaven. If that were the only communication present on Earth, then I would envy the guilty. Did Jesus not help raise guilt within the mob for their own sins?
 
Kindest Regards, cyberpi!

Fantastic post!
A sin is against someone. Is that not someone to confess to?

By all means. I did not deny this, I said I am selective about who I confess to. A natural choice is to confess (or "come clean") with the person one has wronged. I still see no point in doing so in a public forum, of airing dirty laundry for the world to see.

How does G-d feel about that? Have you only sinned against G-d alone?
Dunno, I don't *know* the mind of G-d any more than the next person. All I have to go by are a set of earthly instructions and my own conscience and spiritual intuition. Seems to me a pretty level playing field around the world in that regard.

1. It is a person's choice whether to choose from reflexive, selfish, or prejudicial judgment, or by other means. 2. What means of judgment was used to punish, condemn, or punch arrogance in the nose?

1. I agree. 2. Experience.

Personally, I have to counter a reflex. Do an experiment: Hit yourself just below the kneecap... is it your will or an act of your soul that causes your knee to jerk? Nope, you have to exert your will over your own leg to control it. Where is there judgment in a knee jerk? I find that it is a lack of judgment.

What judgement is used to respond to a gunshot, and return fire? I submit it can be that same type of judgement, based in experience and training.

Does the person who judges with words force their views on others, or does the person who uses punishment or argumentum ad baculum force their views on others? I have personally seen yourself and others claim the former, and to deny the latter. I submit that upon hearing words a person has the choice of what to do. Whether to think, to act, to respond, or to ignore.

You have long struggled to make this point clear to me, and I have long wrestled with it. I am beginning to appreciate what it is you are attempting to say, and whether or not you have even noticed it has also been made evident in my participation around here.

In case you haven't noticed, agreement with another poster is not (and has not ever been) requisite for participation. I am thinking where you and I differ is in the need for civility *while expressing* disagreement. That seems to me the real challenge, and that much I admit to struggling with.

Afterall, I am human too.

My point is, if Jesus can convince a mob to stop with mere words, then should judging with words be made criminal and NOT politically correct? I say no. Judging should be encouraged... If a mob follows with pitchforks over mere words, then I submit it does NOT judge each other or even themselves.

Actually, I do agree with this. Of course, I'm not Jesus either. That is no reason not to try, but I hardly think it unusual if I might fail. Whenever two people interact, the possibility that one or the other will goof up is always present. The problem seems to arise when the other person responds to a goof up with a deliberate goof up, which elicits another deliberate goof up in response. Then things escalate and get out of hand.

Of course, one can always choose to sit on the sideline, watch things unfold, and then sit back and smugly critique those who are actually getting their hands dirty. I see that a lot...not just here. ;) Armchair quarterback I believe is one of the more polite terms. Of course, unlike a spectator to a football game, an open forum such as CR invites any and all to play. It is perfectly OK to have multiple quarterbacks all playing at the same time, because the game here is not football. The difficulty I see is in witnessing the event, knowing it is turning south, folding one's hands and enjoying the fireworks *without making any effort to defuse the situation,* and returning later with a critical evaluation that fails to consider the entire event, (even to the point of harping on about it at length). Since we are being sincere with each other, this is why I have found your critique just a tad short of fully credible, in that you watched and did nothing, only to come back later and criticize everyone else for trying to do anything. Yes, I responded to both of the people you continue on about, but that response in both cases was far from knee-jerk. What you seem to fail to consider (by all means, please review *the whole threads* where these things took place), is that I did make long concerted efforts to deal as amicably as possible with both before things got out of hand. Sadly in the second case, things were already pointed south before I arrived and my efforts were to no avail. In the first case I spent considerable time and effort, in concert with others behind the scenes, in an attempt to get the person to play nice. For a while it seemed to work, and then that person returned to unacceptably rude behavior. Neither person, nor any person ever here, has been banned for their views. Were that so, I would think a lot more people would be gone. Likewise, without some form of civil restraint, as evidenced by other forums available elsewhere on emotionally fraught issues, CR would quickly turn into a muddle of chaos where only the most vocal and masochistic would dare voice an opinion. It is a balancing act to make CR work effectively, and I think the request of civility is an appropriate and modest request to abide by.

You formerly denounced the society that makes a person feel guilty.

I seriously don't recall doing this, please show me. There is always the possibility I was in one of my sarcastic moments.

Guilt is something that I admire because within it I see a voice from heaven. If that were the only communication present on Earth, then I would envy the guilty. Did Jesus not help raise guilt within the mob for their own sins?

Absolutely. I think guilt (conscience) serves a crucial purpose, particularly in the pursuit of wisdom.
 
Kindest Regards, noctuary!

Thank you for following up!

A bird's behavior is to fly and lay eggs and feed their chicks. We say that is a bird. A wolf's behavior is to gather in packs and hunt. We say that is a wolf. We don't judge the bird or wolf by what they think. We judge them by their behavior in connection to their species. A human is not what they think. For that is only between themselves. A human is judged on what a human does in the world.

Thought is internal. Action is external to the world.

Very good! I think I see what you are saying now. So, we are our behavior even when our thoughts contradict that behavior?

What impact do you see on morality? Is morality behavior based or thought based, or some amalgamation?

BTW, completely off topic, the eyes in your avatar are stunning! They remind me of a young lady I knew many moons ago in another life.
 
What impact do you see on morality? Is morality behavior based or thought based, or some amalgamation?
Well that's a little tricky. I think morals are made by the community you live in. Some are small such as your immediate family: Don't hit your kid, it's wrong.
Some are medium size such as your circle of friends: Don't date an ex of your best friend etc.
Some get bigger as in the neighborhood you live in:
Don't park in your neighbor's parking spot. It's not polite
Bigger: Don't kill people who run over your dog. Go to the police etc.

Morals are what make it easier to live in your chosen community. They vary and are not absolute.
 
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Well that's a little tricky. I think morals are made by the community you live in.

Morals are what make it easier to live in your chosen community. They vary and are not absolute.

Since you mentioned birds and wolves as models, would you say a bird or a wolf is moral? or observes some type or form of morality?
 
Well that's a little tricky. I think morals are made by the community you live in. Some are small such as your immediate family: Don't hit your kid, it's wrong.
Some are medium size such as your circle of friends: Don't date an ex of your best friend etc.
Some get bigger as in the neighborhood you live in:
Don't park in your neighbor's parking spot. It's not polite
Bigger: Don't kill people who run over your dog. Go to the police etc.

Morals are what make it easier to live in your chosen community. They vary and are not absolute.

I think "morals" need to be refined to "moral laws". We seem to have seven, and they seem to run through out the gambit of mankind. So, in order to continue, we must first agree that morals are not relative, but are in fact based on rules. Second, we must define and agree on what those "moral laws" are...
 
Thank you for the response!


Since you mentioned birds and wolves as models, would you say a bird or a wolf is moral? or observes some type or form of morality?
They follow natural law. So they don't need help existing in this world. We, on the other hand, need some help since we think we are better than the other creatures on this planet.
We need morals because we refuse to follow natural law.
 
I think "morals" need to be refined to "moral laws". We seem to have seven, and they seem to run through out the gambit of mankind. So, in order to continue, we must first agree that morals are not relative, but are in fact based on rules. Second, we must define and agree on what those "moral laws" are...
Only those who choose to follow those seven have seven. I do not.
 
Well list the seven you think the whole world follows. I mean I know them, but list them so we can discuss.

Ok, the Noahidic Laws:

No Idolatry
No Murder
No Theft
No Sexual promiscuity
No Blasphemy
No Cruelty to Animals
Just Laws and Judges
 
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They follow natural law. So they don't need help existing in this world. We, on the other hand, need some help since we think we are better than the other creatures on this planet.
We need morals because we refuse to follow natural law.

I'm trying to understand your point of view, so please forgive me, but I have long thought that wolves and other herding and pack animals *do* exhibit an elemental form of morality. I could argue further that humans *do* follow natural laws...I can't think of a soul in this existence of my acquaintance that is in the habit of refusing to follow the law of gravity, for instance. Every human still needs to eat, which is being observant to natural law.

Not that this dismisses your original point, but I do think the application of your point between thought and behavior applied to your models may not be fully..."expressed."
 
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I'm trying to understand your point of view, so please forgive me, but I have long thought that wolves and other herding and pack animals *do* exhibit an elemental form of morality. I could argue further that humans *do* follow natural laws...I can't think of a soul in this existence of my acquaintance that is in the habit of refusing to follow the law of gravity, for instance. Every human still needs to eat, which is being observant to natural law.

Not that this dismisses your original point, but I do think the application of your point between thought and behavior applied to your models may not be fully..."expressed."
think I'll step out of this one...
 
Ok, the Noahidic Laws:

The Noahide laws would serve as a decent starting point for discussion if we are to remain solely in the realm of civil human society...

we must first agree that morals are not relative, but are in fact based on rules. Second, we must define and agree on what those "moral laws" are...

If not, I would be obliged to disagree with this. Since wolves and birds were brought in, I think the subject has expanded out.
 
but I have long thought that wolves and other herding and pack animals *do* exhibit an elemental form of morality.
in my opinion we are putting a human name to a natural law: Get along with others etc. I don't think they follow out of a sense of moral code. They follow the natural law to live.
Every human still needs to eat, which is being observant to natural law.
True. But we ruin the natural law. We horde to the point of disaster. We do not follow the basic me then you then me then you. We all say me me me. We try to go beyond our turn.

Not that this dismisses your original point, but I do think the application of your point between thought and behavior applied to your models may not be fully..."expressed."
It's late and I am just short with my words. Sorry. :)
 
The Noahide laws would serve as a decent starting point for discussion if we are to remain solely in the realm of civil human society...



If not, I would be obliged to disagree with this. Since wolves and birds were brought in, I think the subject has expanded out.

That's why I'm begging out.

except for one small thing..."No Cruelty to Animals"

Guess I'm still in...
 
oops. I didn't mean to go off topic. We can skip the animals if you'd like. I was just using it to explain my position on morals etc.
 
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