I have not made up my mind. I just state what I believe to be the best working model of reality, which is of course always open to change with new information.
It seems to me that you interpret others behaviors through your own model of reality, rather than being open to multiple models- that is, being open to others' interpretations of their own behaviors. This is what I am getting at. We all have one or more models of reality. But one can view reality through only their own model, or be open to various models, understanding that others' models may be as valid as their own.
But what am I meant to do....agree with you when I do not?
Certainly not. But there is a difference between agreeing with me and being open to the idea that for others, worship may be what they say they are doing, not what you think they are doing... and may mean what they say it means, not what you think it means. It is openness for which I press. I don't agree with many ideas about worship, but I believe that every person may provide valuable insight into their own behaviors, and that different behaviors may be right for different people.
For you, worship may be superfluous, and I have never claimed that you
should be anything different than what you are (an atheist). What makes me bristle is that you assume that since worship is superfluous or binding for you, it is so for others, rather than acknowledging the value of others' ideas about their own behaviors.
Often, given your expertise in your field, you will correct me and I will be grateful.
I do hope you understand, Tao, outside of facts I never try to correct. I am not trying to correct you now. I just try to press for openness, as I believe that upholds the dignity of each person and recognizes the value of each person's beliefs. Much of this post was sarcastic and tongue in cheek- sometimes it's just my mood. Nothing was said in anger, though I felt mild annoyance at the assumption of superfluity and bondage in others' practices, since it assumes a priviledged position of understanding.
I with full integrity put forward my own personal point of view on many subjects. I am not here to champion the views of yourself, which appear good and sound to me, but to put forward my input in my way.
Well, naturally. I'm simply doing the same, as I see it. If you felt that some activity was really important to you and explained this, and I informed you that it is a mindless, stupid thing to do with surely no value whatsoever and is a total waste of time... you'd find me a bit presumptuous too, yes?
It is one thing to say that in your own experience, worship is superfluous and binding for you. It is another to say that for all people, worship is so... but they just haven't realized this truth the way you have. Can you see the difference? The former, I would never even debate, and would find to be an interesting viewpoint. The latter, I find arrogant.
I dont pull many punches on occasion, but often that has stimulated the debate at hand. In addition I believe my addition in my own style is not altogether unrequired here. Imagine I had written that last quoted paragraph to you?
Indeed- I'm not saying to pull punches. I'm just not pulling them either.
I welcome your debate stimulation- I'm just reponding.
Your singular act
s are plural and amount to your chosen ritual and I never offer guidance. Blind leading the blind and all that
I meant that some of my worship acts are done individually, not communally, so it is not all about fuzzy-warm group belonging and upholding some existing paradigm that keeps us oppressed and under the thumb of The Man. And the heart of my worship is not ritualistic.
Your paradigm is, I believe, the one you state in your posts and more.
My point is that I do not follow a paradigm that upholds any existing social order or religion, so my own worship is actually counter to what you yourself are saying worship does (that is, keep people in bondage) and is also key to a very non-superfluous part of my own life (that is, railing against bondage). My worship is, in fact, deeply counter-cultural. So it sort of stands your assumptions about the functions (or lack thereof) of worship on its head.
My point was worship is a sort of neutral activity. It could be superfluous or the cornerstone to a person's existence. A fetter or the key to freedom. Who is to say what it is for another?
I separate worship from ritual because it
may be ritual and it may not be. Worship, for me, is first and foremost a state of consciousness. It is an awareness. Ritual is a certain type of behavior and it is not always an act of worship. An American birthday party is a ritual that has nothing to do with worship. So is gang initiation, hazing in fraternities and sororities, and christening a boat. Lots of rituals have nothing whatsoever to do with worship. Conversely, worship may involve ritual, or it may be entirely spontaneous action that is not ritualistic at all.
So, I separate the two because you can have one without the other. So they are not the same thing, nor is one dependent on the other.
Basically I am me and I can be annoying. I blame my dad for it.
I blame my grandpa. My mother's father. LOL What can I say? He passed his "fire" on to all of us...
Slightest knowledge? Yup thats what I have...know anyone who has any more?
My point is that we all have slightly more knowledge of ourselves (generally speaking) than we do of others. So when we assume things about others, we are doing so with less knowledge than when we speak of our own experiences. This is why I speak of what worship means to me, but refrain from assigning what it means to others. I speculate (with MLK Jr or Mother Theresa for example) and generally those speculations are based on interviews or other works I read about those people. But I do not assume that my views are correct, except with regards to my own life.
They are....!! And I am no different
. To me they often appear that way. What can i say?
I guess exactly what you do say.
I guess I just give people more credit than you do.
how do you quantify value of that kind with what 'worship' is? I see no connection. Rather you are reflecting your own way of thinking and saying I am wrong for not sharing it.
No, I am pointing toward openness. Based on their own words that I have read, I would say their faith mattered for their life's practice. That is what they themselves have indicated. You may see no connection, but they did and they talked about it. I choose to give value to people's interpretations of their own actions, and their views of their own lives rather than insisting my own view of their life is the right one. In this case, I am not reflecting my own way of thinking, but rather pointing out that everyone is different, and the best source of information about any individual... is that individual. You know the old saying... assumptions make an ass out of u and me. Rather than basing everything on my own connections, I base my view of others' behaviors at least in part on their own connections. I'm not saying you are wrong for not agreeing with
me. I'm saying that assuming things about other people whilst ignoring their own understanding of their own lives is more than a bit presumptuous.
I am sorry I upset you Path.
LOL I'm just debating- it's what I do! That's part of why we're here, yes? Though I feel bad about this poor OP'er because that's not what she asked for at all, yet it seems to plague this thread...
I was annoyed, but I'm not upset. I doubt much could really upset me here on CR. There's just bigger fish to fry in the real world, you know? This is the escape destination for thinking for me.
Path... or poo... depending on how you see it. LOL
It's all about perspective!