What about those who listen, who question in their own way, and don't join your debate?
Those who ponder, meditate, contemplate, pray? Those who seek answers under their own steam? Those who seek answers without recourse to the public sphere ... in short, all sorts.
Personally, I've ticked about half a dozen category boxes at various times. Sometimes questioning my parish priest, sometimes listening to the choir. Sometimes the homily, sometimes the liturgy.
C.S. Lewis had his epiphany when contemplating a 'what if' question. Reverend Kallistos Ware (Orthodox) had his when he heard an Orthodox choir singing in a church on the other side of the road! Cardinal Avery Dulles had his watching a rosebud bloom through a rain-spattered window ...
And my mum. We would talk theology until her eyes glaze, and she'd say, "This is all very well, but all that really matters is the Eucharist ... "
I'm afraid the world cannot be reduced to the easy categories you'd like.