If you feel that way you will have to branch off and form your own denomination as each and every denomination has its "idea" which forms the basis for how they think the situation works.
I don't have to belong to any denomination. I can be an individual. I can make up my own ideas and form my own perspective. There is no need to belong to a community. It is simply better to be part of a community. It has practical value. But there are often problems with the rationalisation people use for forming a religious community. The trouble, historically, with many Christian churches is that the idea of "belonging" has often been about following what its leaders think are important. You are a slave of the ideas that have been established rather than being free to exercise your own personal potential.
They all are in a kind of "standoff" with each other as they feel they have it right and the others are in error.
It doesn't have to be that way, and the trouble with many churches is that they are dictatorial, authoritarian and not democratic. Churches need more democracy. Look at the Quakers. I admire what they have.
You seem to think it is a different situation, so...maybe go and explore the christian community and its diverse denominations a bit and expand that narrow opinion.
Narrow opinion? You think I haven't explored Christianity enough? I have browsed and searched cyberspace and read books. I have looked at different social and political models, different ways of organising churches, well sort of . . . I don't mean I've read about it. I've thought about it more. It doesn't all work the way you're describing. You're talking about your personal experiences, but your personal experience only encapsulates a subset of Christianity. Have you explored all of Christendom? Neither have I, but I base my ideas on multiple paradigms, rather than one single paradigm.
What is your paradigm?
You say a bunch of opinion regarding how you feel that Jesus is not considered an intermediary which I am not going to quote verbatim..
It is just a perspective, but one I feel strongly about because I think of it as an alternative to what is popular. I'm in rebellion against popular and established ideas not because they are necessarily wrong, but because I want to encourage people to see things differently. I don't want people to be narrow-minded in their thinking. I want them to diverge, so I present something different.
More importantly I am describing
how I see it, because this is
my life. It is my journey. I want to encourage people to be more individualistic in their approach to Christianity, to
see things their own way rather than just accepting and following others. Christianity will be better off if you have the freedom to be who you want to be while still being a person who honours God.
I am not just saying this. Jesus wasn't a conformist and neither was Paul after his redemption from legalism. Jesus and Paul not being conformists means that I don't have to be conformist. They were individuals, and so, therefore, am I.
Basic (really basic version
) christian doctrine:
-God created man.
-man screwed up and fell from grace.
-Man now is in a condition of being separated from God.
-God, being a reasonable chap, has set up a method to reunite fallen man with himself via his Son (which is just Himself in another guise).
-This Son (Jesus) becomes the bridge (in any other words...intermediary) which serves as the means to dredge fallen humanity up to His level (prodigal son story)
This is the universal underpinnings of the majority of christianity of most every stripe, so I don't see how you would feel that "intermediary" is just my idea......this is taught in most seminaries as basic course material which one must memorize to pass. (I know this as I attended one which was non-denominational).
I disagree that this is
all that Christianity is about. A guy dying for people's sins? Is that
the only way of seeing it? Are you kidding me? This way of thinking of Christianity is
popular but it doesn't mean it's right nor the only way of seeing it. Even if it's a correct way of thinking of Christianity it doesn't mean it's the most meaningful, valuable and memorable way of thinking of it in a given social or political situation.
This way of telling the story has become cliche. I wish people would be more creative and imaginative and stop talking about a man dying for people's sins,
because it is not all about that. Sorry, but I am just offended by people downsizing Christianity from the size of a man to the size of a fist, and I am trying to depict my displeasure in the most humorous way possible.
How about a liberal-minded Jewish rabbi challenging the more legalistic factions of the day? How about a guy with some socialist yearnings preaching against riches, wealth, power, legalism and fundamentalism? How about a guy preaching about social justice and frugal living? But it wasn't just Jesus. It was Paul as well.
Does that not sound better? When I read the New Testament, that sounds more like it. If you think about it, it would have been pretty pointless to say and do all that stuff if Jesus' only purpose was to die on a cross like a lamb sacrifice. If that was the case, we wouldn't need the written tradition of the New Testament. Who would need to learn about Judaism? Judaism would be irrelevant. The Old Testament would be irrelevant.
What you have just described is what I call
institutional and fundamentalist Christianity. Popular and established ideas are enforced. People are required to "believe" and chant slogans based on what is popular. It is all about conformity and pleasing people by pretending that you are one of them, that you are part of a group mentality. To me, that is a very phony and pretentious.
Who wants to be a "copy cat?" Who wants to be one of the sheeple?
I like your analogy of Jesus being the guy inviting people to the party though....haven't heard that one for a long time.
Yes, it's unconventional. But it doesn't mean it's wrong and unorthodox. I am just different to the rest of the crowd. I am my own man. I am an individualist and anarchist. I don't believe in a group mentality based on collective conformity. You see, the trouble with a lot of Christian churches is that that don't spend enough time studying the mechanics and psychology of politics and ideology. They don't analyse the social implications of their teachings. If they did, they'd realise how often they're wasting time manipulating people rather than doing something constructive socially and politically. To me, that is what Christianity is really about. I think in socio-political terms.
It was not about a guy thinking of himself as a lamb being sacrificed on an altar. That might work for you if that's what you're interested in, but to reduce Christianity to just that is to under-appreciate what Christianity means.
Do you know what Jesus said when John the Baptist asked him if he was messiah? Jesus said to look at what he was doing. The blind could see, the sick were healed, and . . . etc., etc.
You see, Jesus wanted people to have faith in something practical and spiritual. He didn't want people to be blind followers of ideology. John the Baptist was losing faith because of what he thought, based on
established tradition, Jesus was supposed to be. What I am saying here is that people need to discard established ideas when they are no longer practical or relevant, and I believe Jesus believed in that philosophy.
This whole idea is IMO ridiculous as God is not hard of hearing and knows full well what is on your mind even if you would never mention Jesus in your prayer.
Do you really think that your "petition" has a greater chance of success if you tack on the in Jesus' name bit?????.
I'm not sure if you really understood what I was saying. I said praying in Jesus' name had to do with being a "son of God."
Christians call God their "Father," but what's the point of calling God "Father" if He's not actually your "Father?" Jesus is called "God's only Son" which means that we are
not God's children automatically.
We become God's children
by adoption. But you can't just march into God's household and say "I want to be your son." Why should God honour your request? What are your virtues and merits as a person? On the other hand, what is different in how God responds to a prayer from say, Jesus to one from you?
A father loves a son based on their uniqueness. A son is special for who he is to his father. Likewise, we must be like Jesus for God to love us as His own children. A father favours his own son more than he favours the children of others. Likewise, God loves Jesus more than He loves anyone else. God would show more love to Jesus than He does to you. God loves Jesus more than He loves you. Jesus is special to God.
By praying in Jesus' name you
inherit the privileges that Jesus had. It is a
matter of inheritance. You become one of God's sons and God treats you just as favourably as He treats Jesus. You become Jesus' brother.
Praying in Jesus' name is actually the same as Jesus praying to God. You are practically in the same place as Jesus. You are one of Jesus' equals. You, in a sense, become Jesus. You are God's son.
It's a different way of seeing things. I am just being imaginative and creative. Is that illegal in Christianity?
The trouble with institutional and fundamentalist Christianity is that people just accept what they are taught. They don't try a new way of telling the story. They don't think outside the box. People are just machines and robots. It's like The Terminator. They're on a mission. They don't have pity or emotion. They just act. They don't try something new. Churches like that are stagnant.
I want to see and meet real people, not machines and robots. Be alive, please. Get a life! Where's the vitality? Where's the animation? Is it all just a routine?