Have I misunderstood you or have you misunderstood me?
How is Christianity not an alternative? Consider the following passage attributed to Jesus:
Matthew 11:28-30
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
Obviously someone was asking too much of the people of that generation and Jesus came to give people another option. You might find these articles interesting. They explain Jesus' interactions with the Pharisees and puts it in context.
http://www.biblesearchers.com/yahshua/beithillel/beitshammai.shtml
Jesus and the Pharisees
So, according to you, only 'born again' Christians can have a personal relationship with god, am I understanding you correctly?
Not necessarily true. I think it's a very simplistic understanding of what the Gospels and epistles really say. Christianity is best understood when we examine the social, political, economic and historical context. The simple view does not consider that. I hope the two links I provided above are helpful.
Do people really have to be "Christian" to have a relationship with God?
Most of the time when people label themselves or someone else as "Christian" they mean someone who follows the "official," established or mainstream interpretation.
But in the first century, there was no official, established or mainstream interpretation. There was no interpretation. People naturally understood what the leaders taught. There may have been interpretations of Judaism, but no interpretations of Christianity. Christianity was "right there" in the people and it was also in the process of developing and emerging. Christianity was in its "infant stages," and proto-Christianity is what we have been trying to get back to for 2,000 years and we are confused about what it is.
To be truly "Christian" you must be able to recreate the original social, political, economic and historical context. To understand what it means to be "born again," you have to understand what it meant to the people in that environment. Being "born again" is more important than being "Christian." The ultimate goal of being "born again" is to escape this world and enter the "kingdom of heaven."
It may be great to be "Christian," but if you don't escape this world by being "born again," being Christian doesn't help you.
Jesus said you could have eternal life, if you followed "the way" that he taught. I remember dauer saying in a thread two years ago that Jesus' teachings were similar to those of an earlier guy named Hillel. If the teachings are more important than who taught them, then as long as adherents of another tradition understand and follow the same ethics, they might be "born again" too.
The Hebrew word halakha in Judaism means "way of walking." The Arabic word sharah in Islam means "way" or "path." If Jews follow a
halakha that is similar to that of Jesus and if Muslims follow a
shariah similar to Jesus then it wouldn't be hard to show that Jews and Muslims can be "born again" too.
Whatever Jesus did, whoever he did it for, he did not do it with me in mind.
Jesus' final act has to be seen in social, political, economic and historical context. If it wasn't for you, then it might have been some other demographic. It wasn't necessarily just for that generation or that geographic area. Humans have had to deal with social, political and economic issues since the beginning of their race. Many of the same conditions present back then would recur.
He didn't do it for me, I would consider it insane if a modern day person told me that they were going to permit themselves to die a slow and lingering death, 'for me', let alone someone from two thousand + years ago, who lived in a different culture.
Wrong example. How about putting yourself in front of a Japanese whaling ship to act as a human shield? How about standing in front of an armoured tank like a guy holding two bags did during the Tianamen Square massacre?
I am not sure if you are male or female, but imagine coming home one day, and there are police cars and paramedics parked up, outside your house, and when you got in, they told you that your partner had allowed themselves to die in the most painful way possible. Then a note was produced, from your partner, saying that they 'did it for you'.
Jesus' final act had much wider implications that just a relative or friend committing suicide.
I suppose we had best define 'born again'.
'A Christian who has experienced a dramatic conversion to faith in Jesus'
Different people will have their different concepts of what it means to be "born again."
I wouldn't describe "born again" as being about a "personal transformation," but about "where the heart is." In the discussion Jesus has with Nicodemus, Jesus doesn't talk of being "born again" in this world, but in heaven. To be "born again" is to connect with an alternate reality and in doing so to be able to escape this world and migrate to the other when some life-threatening scenario arises.
A lot of Jesus' teachings had an economic context. While I don't believe Jesus taught socialism and I know he certainly didn't teach capitalism, I do think he taught charity. He said we should store our treasures in heaven, because where one's treasure is, that is also where your heart is. Do you work hard to be rich in heaven or rich while on earth?
Getting rich is not so much the problem. What is more of a problem is your attachment to wealth. Remember the subprime mortage crisis in America, the global financial crisis? Millions of Americans received loans that they could not pay back. The greedy banks were all too happy to bait people into taking those loans. People became ridiculously obsessed with home ownership. It was something to show off to family and friends. You were a "bum" if you couldn't keep up with the lifestyle of living beyond your means.
Developed economies already have enough strength to feed everyone continuously. People just want to get rich. We want more power, a better and more comfortable life. More space, more fun, more technology. But do we really need all that?
I think God is happy to let us all enjoy what we have done here, but I think He also wants to give the disadvantaged in this world a chance to live an equally comfortable life, without a developed economy or modern technology. These are the people who would want to get into the "kingdom of heaven" Jesus often talked about, to get a second chance at life.
A simple rule if you want to get into the kingdom of heaven is to work hard to get what you do need and discard everything else and give it to charity. The harder you work, the more you will have for yourself and the more you can share with others. So if you earn $50,000 a year and only have a $20,000 lifestyle, you can give the other $30,000 to charity. Most people, however, keep it all for themselves.
It has a lot to do with people aiming for that big dream of home ownership.
Is it the conversion process that is key?
The "conversion process" would be a life-long endeavour. If charity is a way of escaping this world and gaining a foot-hold in the other, then the more you liberate yourself from the social pressure to accumulate private property and store up riches for home ownership, and the more you give to the homeless and disadvantaged, the more you have to gain in the alternate reality. The people you helped may return the favour in the next world.
The kingdom of heaven is driven more by charity than capitalism, so if you learn how to live by the "way of charity" rather than the "way of capitalism," you may be better suited to living in that world than this one.
Are you saying that by virtue of the absence of the conversion process, she cannot have, according to you, a personal relationship with god?
What does she do for the community?