By dropping, I do not mean you have to avoid, you simply have to drop your identification with it. It is easy to avoid and pretend you are not identified, you can put on a good show. Renouncing, though, you have the same obsessions but instead of embracing them now you run from them. It is the obsessing, the attachment that must go.
You are not the doer, you are the observer. The observer does not go into the negative or positive, it watches both. All is equal to the observer, no comparisons are considered, for it is all divine and necessary.
Without the negative, the positive is nothing. Without the positive, there is no negative. Realizing it is just projection, why become caught in it? Just enjoy, but remain aware of what you are.
There will be great bliss, there will be great sorrow, go into both deeply when they arise. Now simply look, again it is perception - from where is the perception arising?
True happiness is found when you are content simply being, when you are overjoyed by the simple miracle that you are. It all seems utterly impossible, that wonder, that constant surprise that this is, that you are here to experience it. What more can be done? What to say of it?
It is no ordinary contentment, it is an utterly different dimension. Such energy always, yet calm. So happy and yet sad, all the opposites are there at once, yet you float above it all just playing the game.
This is enlightenment and beyond.
Each femals true opposite is her own jesus......Tim & Faith - Stealing Cinderella - YouTube