Specifically I was asking Thomas and Jane was there no way for them to bridge the gap between their differences in belief
Yes, there is, and thanks for bringing that question to the fore.
I was about to go into a long discussion (typically me) but a phone call interrupted, so I'll keep it short.
For a start, I think we both have an experience of Christ which should be something we mutually celebrate — good grief, there's enough malice on display around here!
Probably the better conversation is about (if I read you correctly Jane-Q) the 'psychological moment' of the meeting with Christ, as Jane seems to refer to it, whereas I might say 'the spiritual event'. We might well be talking about the same thing, with contextual differences. Nor is it necessarily right to say it is one or t'other. I would insist, for example, that
something happened to Saul of Tarsus on the road to Damascus, and it seems to tick
both boxes.
So I'll sing off with an apologia to Jane-Q.
You are of course right that the sacred scribe added his own gloss to the testimony. How we interpret that is a more nuanced thing. Perhaps it's just a matter of semantics. Perhaps, if the Man turned up, He'd say, "OK, you two, cut it. Just be nice to each other,
capisce? Be cool."