Really? You've yet to make an objective point.
I've made several. The issue I am referring to is you are approaching it solely from a Christian mindset. That only works if the Audience is Christian first. What happens when a Jew reads the text without a Christian "telling them" what it means? How about a Hindu, or Buddhist? Do you think they would come to the conclusion that fearing God is a failure? Or that it is impossible to love and fear simultaneously?
Ah, the 'what if' and the 'yeah, but' ... Pity him. Exclude him from the community if he is incapable of self-control.
But not punish him? Excluding him how? what if he persists, it's not like you gave him permission the first time... You may not like what if's, and I understand completely, but the examples are clear examples the problems and the lack of resolve in that way of thinking. Without punishment, or fear of punishment, nothing deters the sins. People regularly say they "love their spouse" but then go off and cheat on them. Some of these people are absolutely sure they "love" their wife. But they don't fear the punishment.
No they don't. Because you're contradicted, don't assume the text is.
I'm not saying it is. I made no such claim. I'm saying the implicit statement's general understanding amongst most of Christians I've met in my life, contradicts the Explicit statements from the same text (Using whole Bible as 1 text, yet I am aware it is actually a collection)
Because love transcends fear.
That is your opinion. I don't see either as mutually exclusive. Along with many Christians. Love and fear are both essential in the overall path... Think of them as the left wall and right wall of the path (IMO of course.)
Again, this is an issue of you avoiding a word because you don't like it. Anyone you love you are a slave of. I'm a slave of my son, wife, parents, and Allah. I do my best to do all they request. If it is in my power and is not going to hurt them I'll do it, regardless if it is what I want to do.
We must cast away the notion of people owning people as slavery if we are going to use it in the context of Bible, Quran, etc. since that is not the way it is used (when referring to God or others we love or the righteous path). The other type of slavery exists in both books, however it is very clear in context how they are different.
In fact I'd say if you see yourself as a slave then the one you are enslaved to has robbed you of your human dignity. In the same way that if you enslave yourself to something, you surrender your dignity.
What is dignity, in essence? The definition is "the state or quality of being worthy of honor or respect." Are you worthy of the respect of God? Do you feel God should Honor you? How could one believe in his greatness, and power while thinking you are worthy to have him Honor you?
Self-discipline is not slavery.
How so? If you are doing something because you feel it is the way an entity told you to, how is it not in a way slavery? If you are the entity, then you are your own master and slave.