I would just say that as I now understand Buddhism, it is not so much about eliminating suffering as of understanding it. This because dukkha is not one side of life, with joy and pleasure on the other side, but more the underlying reality of all life. Thus the ending of it does not lead to any "opposite" then becoming the only reality, but in fact leads to a "transcending", a no-position - the Buddhist "middle way" (This not a position between two extremes)
"Be not conformed to this world". Yet we must love it, as being part of it. IMO.
As some tell me that I am often not understood, a few more words. I
do post to clarify my own mind, I do not seek to
teach or "inspire".
But to try to make the above post clearer:-
In Christianity, so I am told, we "sin because we are sinners", we are not "sinners because we sin". I hope others do see the difference. I'm not really that bright and I can. The consequence is that we cannot overcome being "sinners" by doing a good deed. We cannot "justify" ourselves. The only acceptable good deeds (to G!d) are those "done in Christ", when the self has surrendered and lives by Grace, the "work" of G!d in us.
Just so, in Buddhism, we are not free of dukkha when we enjoy a drink or experience moments of pleasure. Dukkha is what we
are, what we are in all our seeing; dukkha is that in which we live and move and have our being. In Buddhism our "seeing" must be in/with "wisdom" ("wisdom" defined as "the mind/heart, thirsting for emancipation, seeing direct into the heart of reality") just as a Christian must be "in Christ". For Buddhism, the Mahayana phrase is "Samsara (
this world of birth and death)
is nirvana." Easily misunderstood. But IMO it has to do with "suffering" (dukkha) not so much
ending as being
understood. In that understanding
is the transformation.
IMO there are correspondences here. This is what Inter-faith dialogue is all about, we are seeking to learn and understand from each other.
To finish, IMO, this all involves pure acceptance which, in my own limited experience, leads not to a passive state, but is the catalyst of genuine transformation. Pure acceptance = grace.