you read into my post what was not said.
I think I read it as intended, though. You were quite clear in what you said.
You were saying how you want to help people spiritually, to get them so see the truth, for their own best interest. I get that!
Here's what I was replying to, for easy reference:
Now, can I care about people no matter what they believe, certainly. Do I care about a person more if I see them heading in a wrong direction and try to help them, yes.
In the very next sentence, you made the analogy to how it feels to be watching someone suffering in an abusive relationship, and wondering how one might best help.
Say someone is in a bad abusive relationship and I try to help the person out of it, yet they don’t want out of the relationship because they feel like no one else will every love them. Should I sit back and see them abused or try to help them see what they can not see at this point. Which is the right or loving thing to do?
And again, I get that! I've been there, on both sides of such a relationship situation. It's very difficult to watch, isn't it?
So here's what I learned: Unasked-for advice never works, it is in fact just another crossing of boundaries for the person on the receiving end. If they are truly in an abusive relationship, then they already have more than enough of such boundary violations going on in their life. And if they aren't really in an abusive relationship, then it is still a very invasive thing to do to give them unasked-for advice.
Now, spirituality, faith, beliefs, world-views, all these things have a big "relationship" component in them: they revolve around the relationship between a person and the numinous, the divine, the mystery, nature, the universe, God, ... - something vast, something wonderful, right? What Buber called the "I-Thou" relationship. Very intimate, very personal. To tell another person, unasked, that this intimate, personal relationship is wrong, and they need to act, or say, or read, think in this way - your way, essentially - for it to be a correct relationship, is really very invasive, very impolite, violent, even. I'm learning not to do that. Failing often, but determined to stick to it. If you read back on this site, you will find many instances of me struggling with, and giving in to, my urge to help people see the errors of their ways.
But where does that leave someone like you with your concern for my spiritual well-being, with your perception that I am in peril and not seeing it, or not accepting what you know is good and right for me? What about your desire to do "the right or loving thing"?
I would invite you to examine where this impulse comes from, within your heart. It obviously comes from a good, tender place, and listening to it, figuratively speaking, to learn more about that tenderness, would definitely be a good, right, and loving thing to do for yourself. The equation of loving the next person like oneself has two sides, after all.