I have lived in the world of watching abuse, sons abusing their mother or father, men abusing women, people abusing people. This world is full of it, everywhere you look.
And, sadly, you have brought it here.
You talk about peace ... I would ask you to consider your manner and method, and whether that promotes peace here, or discord?
When I joined here, I was quite a hardline Catholic. Dialogue with respondents here had rubbed off many of my sharper edges. IO has taught me to listen, has taught me the meaning of ecumenism ... there are those here with whom there have been mighty struggles ... and yet my opponent declares me his friend, and offers to buy me a drink, and I reciprocate ... I have learned I can respect people who believe differently, and who might hold my own Tradition is a very poor light ...
There were those with whom I did not budge, with him I neither sought nor offered quarter.
But I have learned a better way.
There is, dare I say it, a wisdom from the Buddhist Tradition:
Mind precedes all mental states. Mind is their chief; they are all mind-wrought. If with an impure mind a person speaks or acts suffering follows him like the wheel that follows the foot of the ox.
Mind precedes all mental states. Mind is their chief; they are all mind-wrought. If with a pure mind a person speaks or acts happiness follows him like his never-departing shadow."
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Dhammapada, Yamakavagga: Pairs, 1 & 2)
In justification of this citation, I would quote Scripture:
"For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that we may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ" 1 Corinthians 2:16)
Jesus Christ – The Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6)