No-one's asking you to apologise for who you are, Tony, just that you extend a common curtesy to others for who they are.
It's always wise to bear in mind that maybe their focus on their inspired writings as much as you do on yours, and indeed perhaps the Word of God has permeated their soul more that it has yours or mine ... we should be open to the other, that's what true love is.
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I heard an Islamic scholar on the radio, years ago, and he offered a story of Christ, although I have no idea of its origen or authenticity.
Jesus was walking along the road when he came upon a holy man kneeling in prayer.
"What are you doing?" Jesus asked. "I have dedicated my whole life to God, and the contemplation of Him," the man said.
"Who takes care of you?"
"My brother takes care of all my worldly needs," the man told him, pointing to the brother waiting nearby.
"Then perhaps your brother loves God more than you do," Jesus said, and went on his way.
I doubt it is authentic ... but it's certainly 'in the spirit' of His mission. Those words have stuck with me.