lunamoth said:
Hi Rick, Yes there are writings to balance out those which I quoted. To me the entire BAO comes down to having trust in the UHJ. But I feel that the UHJ, the BAO, breaches that trust and puts legalities above love and compassion. Perhaps this is not the way the faith used to be, perhaps it is not the way it will be in the future, but bottom line, what will happen to a homosexual Baha'i who obtains a civil union with her partner? How do you explain what happened to Alsion Marshall? These are breaches of that trust.
Hi, Luna;
Yes. You are absolutely right, it is a matter of trust. And one cannot put trust in what one cannot trust. You should not do so. It is ultimately your decision. And its ultimately mine.
What happens to someone who enters into a homosexual partnership who is also a Baha`i. They don't get "churched". They are not expelled. But their right to attend feast is curtailed (though they can attend Holy Days, firesides, commemorations, study circles, children's classes, etc). They are also not allowed to hold Baha`i elected office or vote in Baha`i elections. And finally they are not allowed to give to the Baha`i Funds. Their administrative rights are revoked but not their identity as Baha`i's. If, in the future they can rebuild their life in such a way that the violation of Baha`i law is resolved, they can be re=instated. Its not a permanent shunning. in fact it is not a shunning at all. In the last five years on a Local Assembly on which I served we twice had to recommend a loss of administrative and twice worked with individuals to have those rights re-instated. In all four instances it was violation of Baha`i marriage laws that precipitated the loss of administrative rights. None of those occasions had anything to do with homosexuality. In fact, I have never lived in a community in my thirty + years where such an event occured. By my own experience this is nothing common.
In my own experience I have known of three instances where a Baha`i in good standing was homosexual, but managed to live in accordance with Baha`i law.
lunamoth said:
Yes, there are avenues to voice concerns, but these avenues are designed to isolate the believer who questions. Face a nine-member assembly, alone. Write a letter to the UHJ. Do not talk about it with your friends. Do not make your concerns public in any way..
I could put you in touch with a Baha`i professor who has taken several issues of academic freedom to the Universal House of Justice and had replies which clarify the issues to her satisfaction.
lunamoth said:
Did not SMKolins in this very forum describe how he would not want every administrave meeting taken up with people going on about "the basics" as he called them, rather than getting on with the important business at hand (promoting the Baha'i Faith).
The responsibilites of a Local Assembly occasionally touch on pastoral matters, we don't have clergy to tend to that kind of thing. There are mecahnics for dealing with personal issues that observe the rights and feelings of those involved. An assembly tends to deal with such things not as routine, but as occasions when love and guidance has to be lavished on individuals. But . . . the purpose of a local assembly is to teach the Cause, everything else is secondary; however part of that is making the Baha`i Community a good model of how society ought to work. So teaching and pastoral matters are one and the same.
lunamoth said:
Baha'is are told that they can't be members of certain organizations such as Amnesty International.
Baha'is can't publish anything about the Baha'i Faith, even scholarly works, without pre-publication review by Baha'i Authorities.
WHY?
What is it that detests the sunlight?
As to Amnesty International, this is from the House's guidance on the issue to an individual believer:
"Even though it is not appropriate for Bahá'ís to become members of Amnesty International, its humanitarian aspects make it possible for Bahá'ís to have friendly relationships with the organization. Thus, Bahá'ís are encouraged to feel free to collaborate as individuals in certain Amnesty International's projects, while retaining the right to abstain from participation in actions which could conflict with Bahá'í principles.
"Regarding the enquiry in the penultimate paragraph of your letter, the Universal House of Justice had not established a list of different organizations that the Bahá'í Faith should not support. An important distinction, however is drawn between association with other movements and actual membership. In general Bahá'ís are encouraged to collaborate with all others who are working towards the same goals as the Faith. Bahá'ís are not permitted, however, to be members of certain secret societies, of the religious organizations of other Faiths, of political organizations or, of course, of organizations whose goals are in conflict with the Bahá'í principles. For example, Bahá'ís would gladly work together with Christians in humanitarian activities, but a Bahá'í, believing in Bahá'u'lláh, cannot be a member of a Christian church which believes that Christ has not yet returned."
http://bahai-library.com/?file=uhj_amnesty_international for the entire document.
The review process changes all the time, Luna. For the past five years there has been no review process whatsoever concerning electronically published material. I helped my daughter go through the process for publishing a children's book. It made it through without much delay, though we have not found a publisher as yet.
lunamoth said:
And perhaps it is not the prevailing attitude, but how many times have I read comments by Baha'is online about how well, they'd like to overlook a fellow Baha'i's homosexual relationship, but they might be compelled to alert the Local Spiritual Assembly to be obedient.
How could I ever encourage my gay friends to love a religion that would open them up to that kind of treatment?
Too much emphasis on our pitiful attempts at human "justice," keeping our fellow believers in line, rather than on compassion and love.
lunamoth
Its not a matter of "obedience". Ratting out is ratting out, and one should consider it carefully. Does the way that an individual Baha`i is living cast a bad light on the faith?
I think those who are committed to being "Gay" are not going to be committed to accepting a faith that says they should not live such a lifestyle. I think an individual teaching the faith should be up-front about it. Once upon a time a certain celebrity wished to become Baha`i, but in consultation with those who taught she was convinced to withdraw her declaration because her personal life at the time would have conflicted with her being a declared Baha`i. Those who loved her and taught her the faith helped her make a decision.
Being Baha`i is voluntary, and one should know what is expected of those who declare up front and right away.
As to to the human sense of "justice" being too weak, well Baha`u'llah makes a clear demand of believers:
"O SON OF SPIRIT!
The best beloved of all things in My sight is Justice; turn not away therefrom if thou desirest Me, and neglect it not that I may confide in thee. By its aid thou shalt see with thine own eyes and not through the eyes of others, and shalt know of thine own knowledge and not through the knowledge of thy neighbor. Ponder this in thy heart; how it behooveth thee to be. Verily justice is My gift to thee and the sign of My loving-kindness. Set it then before thine eyes."
(Baha'u'llah, The Arabic Hidden Words)
Regards,
Scott