don Miguel Ruiz- four agreements..
1. be impeccapble with your word
2. Don't take anything personally
3. Don't make assumptions
4. Always do your best.
We are always playing on the edge of fire, dangerously close to the heat, but we are adults and enjoy the warmth and comaraderie, we just gotta put up with the smoke in our eyes every now and then...
For the most part all major hair on the back of the neck issues I've seen have come from #3 above. Many posts are just not complete and succinct in their thought and others fill in the blank utilizing #3 and then go straight to abusing #2 and forget to do #4.
I love this place, the openess and willingness of the participants and the circumnambulation that ensues. No need to back off due to disagreements, just continue the exploration...it seems we are often just a few posts away from finding if not common ground, an acceptable understanding of each others belief...
1. be impeccapble with your word
2. Don't take anything personally
3. Don't make assumptions
4. Always do your best.
We are always playing on the edge of fire, dangerously close to the heat, but we are adults and enjoy the warmth and comaraderie, we just gotta put up with the smoke in our eyes every now and then...
For the most part all major hair on the back of the neck issues I've seen have come from #3 above. Many posts are just not complete and succinct in their thought and others fill in the blank utilizing #3 and then go straight to abusing #2 and forget to do #4.
I love this place, the openess and willingness of the participants and the circumnambulation that ensues. No need to back off due to disagreements, just continue the exploration...it seems we are often just a few posts away from finding if not common ground, an acceptable understanding of each others belief...