Dondi
Well-Known Member
Thank you Ruby. I am learning. I'm learning to be discerning when it comes to people. Like Kenny Roger's, I'm starting to "know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, and know when to run". When Jesus sent His disciples out to preach the gospel, He told them that if they are not received in a house to just "shake the dust of your feet" and move on.
Another thing that I am learning is that Jesus knew how to approach people where they are. He had an innate sense of where the person was spiritually and had a way of speaking truth to them in a personal way, like the woman at the well, or the diminutive Zacchaeus, or the noble Nicademous. I suppose witnessing is an art. And in order to be effective, we must hone our talent, study human behavior, and read the signs people display. Learn to find the needs in peoples lives and minister to them compassionately and acceptantly. You are right, Ruby, it is the Spirit that draws and we must be sensitive to the wisdom of the Spirit as we deal with people.
Another major change I'm implementing is that while I know from my own experiences the consequences of sin (God knows I've made a mess of things in my life in the past), I'm no longer prone to dangle the "H" word in front of folks when I share. I think it is sufficient enough to warn about the consequences sin in this life NOW, rather than add the possiblility of hell later. But don't get me wrong, I not going point to any particular sin in a person's life, for that would make me appear judgmental, which is the least effect I want. People know what their sins are, so I need not remind them. Rather, I would stress how sin affects our relationship with God and with each other. And how God wants us to learn how to love more perfectly. Because "love covers a multitude of sins". When we learn to love God and others, the natural outcome is that we will be less prone to sin. Would you not agree?
As far as impinging on people's right to freedom of religion and thought, which you, Ruby are so against, well, we live in a world of many influences. Some good, some bad. But as Paul Simon sang, "A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest". We have the power to choose, to listen or not to listen, and that is a freedom we can exercise.
Another thing that I am learning is that Jesus knew how to approach people where they are. He had an innate sense of where the person was spiritually and had a way of speaking truth to them in a personal way, like the woman at the well, or the diminutive Zacchaeus, or the noble Nicademous. I suppose witnessing is an art. And in order to be effective, we must hone our talent, study human behavior, and read the signs people display. Learn to find the needs in peoples lives and minister to them compassionately and acceptantly. You are right, Ruby, it is the Spirit that draws and we must be sensitive to the wisdom of the Spirit as we deal with people.
Another major change I'm implementing is that while I know from my own experiences the consequences of sin (God knows I've made a mess of things in my life in the past), I'm no longer prone to dangle the "H" word in front of folks when I share. I think it is sufficient enough to warn about the consequences sin in this life NOW, rather than add the possiblility of hell later. But don't get me wrong, I not going point to any particular sin in a person's life, for that would make me appear judgmental, which is the least effect I want. People know what their sins are, so I need not remind them. Rather, I would stress how sin affects our relationship with God and with each other. And how God wants us to learn how to love more perfectly. Because "love covers a multitude of sins". When we learn to love God and others, the natural outcome is that we will be less prone to sin. Would you not agree?
As far as impinging on people's right to freedom of religion and thought, which you, Ruby are so against, well, we live in a world of many influences. Some good, some bad. But as Paul Simon sang, "A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest". We have the power to choose, to listen or not to listen, and that is a freedom we can exercise.