Cyberpi,
Other people definitely influence our lives, and vice versa. However, this is part of the
result (!) ... of our own (and others') earlier actions! When the person on the highway cuts you off,
you are still in control -
if you so choose. Even if that person causes you to swerve, and wreck, and become terribly hurt ... EVEN THEN,
YOU are the one who determines your reaction/response. That person may have to pay the medical bills, but it's up to you to make him or her a sworn enemy, prosecute to the fullest extent of the law, or perhaps forgive them - and accept that it was not intentional.
When the meteor falls and destroys your home, it's easy to say,
"I'm a victim!" And in terms of natural disaster, yes. But what YOU DO NEXT,
is up to you.
If you win the lottery, do you really think it's random? Did that
really just happen because "they" drew your lucky number? And why did you decide to buy a ticket that day, when you NEVER play the lottery? Why did your friend
decide to give you the ticket, since of course, you'd NEVER buy one for yourself. Or ... of all the HUNDREDS of lottery tickets you buy, why do you think it was THIS one, and not the
first one, that was lucky? There are answers to these kind of questions. They are hypothetical, but life is not without meaning, purpose, order, guidance, rhythm, balance, and a beauty unto itself.
Buddhism is about Causality. Assert that the world we live in is random and arbitrary, and you negative the teachings of the Buddhas. Invoke the
man in the sky, and start talking about reward and punishment, and all you've done is perpetuate the need to be taken care of ... and evaded ultimate responsibility for yourself.
Can we in fact take, or claim such responsibility? Yes, we can. And that doesn't eliminate God, either. Nor does it mean we cease to be Christian. Just kinda depends on how
narrowly we've come to
define and understand the teachings of Christ.
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As for the answer to the thread topic,
thanks soma. I believe you've pretty well summed it up!
Namaskar,
taijasi