I always find these fun, though I just can't seem to buy into them (or astrology, or any other thing where I'm lumped in with a gazillion other people by some seemingly random thing). Anyhoo, just to answer the original question, based on my maiden/birth name, I'm:
Expression 7, Soul Urge 1, Persona 6
The Expression and Soul Urge is a fine match, but Persona not so much. While animals and people are often attracted to me, I wouldn't say I look affectionate. I've been told by a lot of people that I come across as intimidating until they hear me speak. I do try to make people comfortable if I can, but I don't think my dress comes across as harmonious or comfortable. Generally, I'm wearing some sort of pseudo-goth clothing- I love Victorian stuff and would wear more if I could get away with it, business dress is corporate goth (think black and gray suits), and when I'm casual I generally (though not always) look slightly punk. The stuff is comfortable to me, but I don't think it radiates a look of comfiness.
Oddly enough, my full married name (including middle) was way off the mark, but my first and last married name (without middle name) was pretty accurate (9/8/1).
I also checked on my husband's name, which was totally un-him. Really quite funny how much it was not like him.