The ten commandments don't SOUND like options or choices.
Of course there are choices though, either follow the faith or don't - the rules of the faith are applied from there... patriotism is no different, and it seems we have a dual-religion person in this thread. If you don't like the rules, you have a choice - you can leave the country or abide by its laws. Even has the same fanaticism.
If you are saying that you can follow a faith and yet ignore its rules, well, I'd have to disagree. The stories have a purpose, they built your love for your particular tradition, but it is the laws in most faiths that are the real purpose of religion. Christianity is so popular because many Christians separate the Commandments of the Old Testament from the dispensation of Jesus... they see his sacrifice for their sins as permission to commit them in the future with the simple caveat that you love God, and your neighbor as yourself - yet, when they are against something, they are quick to jump to those laws to justify their hatred... very hypocritical.
I don't actually have anything against Christianity, there are some truly beautiful statements throughout the New Testament, even the Hasidic and Kabbalist groups around the Torah are beautiful traditions. I just think a lot of Christians are fooling themselves or merely going through the motions because it's how they were brought up. I personally gravitate towards Eastern traditions more because they actually provide methods of proof rather than saying "blessed are those who have not seen and still believe", it basically says right here that you don't have to put any effort in and in fact it's better if you don't, you'll be further blessed.
Eastern religions bring real encounters with truth, direct experience. They too, however, have their issues. I don't understand people that commit to a particular tradition, personally, because you're only getting one perspective. They all share truth, and they all contain cruft, disregard the cruft and discover the truth... this, for me, is the only path to God. Every founder of a religion was merely an enlightened man that gained substantial following - they all start out as cults, going against the orthodoxy. If these men can go against the orthodoxy, why are we so strict in following their rebellion? It makes no sense to me...