Nobody has a right to demand respect...it has to be earned.
Really. How proud of you. How many measure up to it?
I try and respect all, under the Golden Rule, without requirement.
For me respecting others is a given. It may well be lost, equally it may be enhanced, but I don't put up barriers, set tests, demand requirements fulfilled, etc., before someone earns my respect. They only come after it's lost, for my preservation and theirs.
(As for God, it's no contest, really. Who is God? Who am I? Reason comes into play here, surely – and please, no brickbat responses based on literal readings of ancient texts)
THE BIG ISSUE
Is people like to put the dialogue in terms of what God requires of me. As if I'm OK, but God's got a problem.
It's all one way traffic, as if God is indeed 'a jealous God' (as the Bible states, 15 times).
I'm a jealous son, husband, brother and father ... I love and care for, want to preserve and protect those close to me. I want the best for them, I want them to be happy, and I'm upset when they're not.
I speak to strangers in the street. I've even been known to wake drunks on the underground to ask if they've reached or missed their station (I got kissed once, too, which was not quite what I had bargained for.)
The point is, religion is all about us being with God. It's us who separated ourselves in the first place, it's us who put all the impediments in the way of Union. Or Enlightenment, or whatever ... every tradition says the same, what you desire is closer to you than your own shadow ...
And it's us who invent all manner of reasons for finding fault with God, when really we're saying 'it's not my fault' when actually, it is.
The Bible nailed that transcendent truth millennia ago, and it's as true now as it was then.