Vasu Devan
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That, per se, has been the whole issue, I think. So much of religion in all its myriad forms has been focused on controlling behavior here based on how those actions or inactions will result in reward or punishment after we die. We may believe in, but have yet to experience, an afterlife.Per salvation: As intrigued as I have forever been about the afterlife, my understanding of salvation never jibed fully with it.
We need a savior in this life. Both as individuals and as humanity collectively. We need a savior in this world, in some form or another, on THIS side of death.
Perhaps one is needed for the other side as well, but in the meantime, while we are here, we need help, individually and collectively.
Even Buddhism and Hinduism teach the concept of karma; ultimately based on the promise of escaping rebirth after we die.
Daoism and Adhvaitha are the only spiritual paths I know of that are not based on promises in the afterlife but rather on rewards in this one. However, in a sense, they take a somewhat mystical approach to living that may not be for all. Stoicism is another path that may help many. It may have been earlier and more realistic attempts at CBT, than the one being practiced in psychology today. But it speaks on no divine aspects and even advocates suicide if life becomes unbearable. "The door is always open." - Epictetus
So why not focus on rewards and gain in this life instead? What I see as the biggest loss in current culture today is the lack of self-love. Depression onsets many as gains of likes and followers for the online self become pointless to all eventually if the offline self does not feel loved. And based on that many turn to material achievements or approval from others to validate the meaningfulness of the self. Nothing wrong with those two but when it becomes the sole source of validation, something will break.
Learn to love the self - both physical and spiritual, with all its flaws - and that may be all you need to find genuine unconditional love and use it as a path until death.