Saltmeister
The Dangerous Dinner
I love the charitable Christian attitude (in the face of such a tremendous threat) which I see so often in the Christian forums. Take this one, for example. It just oozes.
You gotta remember that so-called "charitable Christians" are just as human as you. The teachings of Jesus were never about going beyond one's human limits because they were always about our human vulnerabilities. People should be "charitable" but not to the point of compromising their "humanity" and ceasing to be genuine and sincere. There is a point at which "charitable" Christians can become fake and phony.
There is such a thing as going too far. If a Christian gets angry or is offended, take him for what he is. Don't say, "oh but no, you're supposed to be better." Religion is a social, political, economic and ideological process. You should never forget or overlook the human aspect of a religion, because the greatest strength of any religion or tradition is our humanity.
It is such a shame that the terms "Christian" and "Christianity" became a brand and now that it is a brand, it is possible for it to be desecrated. Now that it has been desecrated by people "falling short" of the "ideals" of Jesus, let it remain desecrated so that people can now be more realistic, which was the original goal of Jesus' teachings.
And that's why I, personally, feel Christianity needs changing. Because if you're going to fall back on your religion, and tell me that that's what's responsible for you all acting this way ... then clearly that's where the issue is.
If you want to "reform" Christianity, you better have a proposal that the majority of Christians will accept. You can't reform a religion without "working within" its traditions, just like Jesus worked within Judaism. Christians hate the idea of "borrowing" from other traditions. It makes Christianity seem insufficient. Criticism from an outsider isn't helpful if it doesn't make sense within that tradition. It is true of most traditions I know.
As for the way "Christian" posters are behaving here, I think you shouldn't expect more from them than you could ever expect from a fellow human. From what Quahom said himself recently, he was a disillusioned Catholic until he discovered "humanity." I'm thinking he meant the same thing as I am saying here.
I am also a KNOWER.
What do you "know?"
WHERE ELSE do you expect the Truth to come to Light?
What truth?
Well friends, if that's how it is, if you find it useful and necessary to all band together and attack someone, EVEN IF s/he were to happen to attack your own beliefs
Who is attacking whom? What I see is a bunch of individuals, each acting independently.
It may appear that a group of people are ganging up on someone, just like what happened last year with Marsh. I think he got the impression that everyone was ganging up on him. But we were all acting independently. I am no sheep. My opinions are my own. I do my own thing.
We really don't give a flip if you lot don't have the gumption, the wherewithal or the patience to ask, "Ahh, let's see. What's the lesson for me here? What's the way in which I may be useful in this particular situation?"
The trouble with your post so far is that you've been incredibly vague about what you are actually talking about. While you may enjoy giving us vague descriptions about what it is that is so important, so critical and crucial, I would appreciate it if you could be more direct. It's almost like you don't want to say it. You keep going round in circles, hovering around in vagueness, making people figure out what you want them to think. I don't know what is so important that you have to play "hard to get."
... then why don't you just turn the OTHER cheek, and prove that you are not TOTALLY without this thing you bandy about, speak so highly of, CLAIM as so important in your lives, but then ~ when push comes to shove ~ forget altogether.
"Turning the other cheek" may make sense in some situations, but not in others. If it doesn't make sense to me, I don't do it. I have not yet succeeded in completely integrating this "turn the other cheek" thing into my "humanity, so as far as understanding what it means to be human is concerned, in many cases I cannot "turn the cheek." So I don't try.
From what I have seen, you don't either. You don't seem so reluctant in giving criticism and neither am I. Why should I contain my anger when I feel I have to let others know about it? Keeping something to yourself isn't always healthy. Sometimes you have to let it out, so I let it out. I put it out there for people to see.
To me, life is a series of negotiations where you're trying not to be dominated over, oppressed, persecuted, humiliated or exploited. I for one hate being humiliated or embarrassed on these forums, so when I feel threatened, I will respond in ways that will preserve my dignity.
You go to the negotiation table with a list of demands and a statement of your intentions. After a good long talk, you take what you wanted. That is what I do on these forums. I take what I want. But it isn't my policy to be assertive to the point that I take what harms another individual. You have to be assertive, but at the same time you also have be considerate of the dignity of others. Never ask too much, nor too little. Everybody gets their own fair share of the "power distribution" of the social order. I strive not to dominate, nor to have others dominate over me.
So AndrewX, please state your intentions. When you have finished discussing your list of demands we will each come out of this discussion (I mean negotiation) with what we want.
There is nothing wrong with that. Especially if it *happens to be* true. And I doubt it. But I wish you would finally prove me wrong. Any of you, but sometimes, especially, some of you. Because for all your talk and puffiness, you sure as hell demonstrate very little FAITH.
I agree. If people had more faith in the teachings of Jesus, heaven would break in. That was what Jesus demonstrated through his miracles. Our world would be transformed.
... that we become BETTER Christians (oh wait, that's you lot, my apologies) ... then anyone care to tell me, what's so much more important than THAT, that we fail to show that, when we're ganged up on (oh wait, I'm sorry, that's YOU LOT, again) here on the Christian forums, during such a blatant, outright, ruthless, vile attack, with overwhelming numbers, odds and such cruel weaponry as has been devised for this calamity?
Don't you get it? Christianity has become brand. That's why.
I am frustrated. But it's because you can't recognize a Warrior of Light when you see one. You truly, as has been said before ... don't know your own. But the `You' is Humanity, the Warrior of Light is the Soul ... and God's own?
How do you decide who is a "Warrior of Light?"
The way I see it, so-called Warriors of Light must announce the most important teachings of Jesus and Christianity before such a status can be confirmed. But you won't know what that is until you become one yourself because only then can you recognise "the others." But what is "important" tends to differ from individual to individual.