Thank you for your response Lunamoth. May I ask if you believe in a Day of Judgement, where you will have to answer for your sins?
Also, when you go to confession (assuming you repent honestly and from the heart), if the priest forgives you are your sins then forgiven by G-d completely and if so what if you have murdered someone?
In that knowledge we realize all the hurt, pain and suffering our choices and actions caused in this world, whether that pain was caused by our climb up the corporate ladder or because we murdered someone.
I am forgiven of all of my sins when I turn to the Lord and repent.
It seems to be a recurring question. Again and again people ask if we're "simply forgiven." It's as if there is a set of rules on who God will accept or reject. It then becomes a matter of following the rules in the hope that somehow we will be able to manipulate God into accepting us.
I know it must be rather cynical for me to say this, but I just don't agree with or like the idea.
Many Christian religious leaders are afraid if they can't give people straight answers or assure people that there is a clear path ahead of them that people will stop respecting them or going to other churches. They start coming up with criteria or a list of things to do to be accepted by God. They start making rules like "if you do this and that you're in the safe zone."
I think such leaders just aren't worthy of being leaders at all. It's the coward's way out. Jesus wasn't intimidated by people who asked him for rules on who went to "heaven" and "hell" or who God accepted. When asked about the so-called "hell" Jesus didn't define any concept of "hell." He didn't set limits or boundaries on what "hell" was like or who went there or who didn't.
He did, however, give examples. He also gave examples on who God would accept. The trouble is that we think that these examples are "limiting cases" or "boundary conditions" or "criteria" on deciding how God would respond. We have seen, in the list 2,000 years, Christian religious leaders formulating all kinds of philosophies to define the process by which God accepted/rejected people, with attached rules, boundaries and sets of criteria.
Jesus' message was simple: focus on the important things and God would accept/reward/vindicate us.
Do we really know for sure if God accepts us? My views on this have evolved over the last few years, but in the last few weeks I'm starting to see things in a completely different way. My response to the question now would be to say that some of us can be sure, while some of us cannot, regardless of whether or not we're "Christian" in the conventional sense.
This may seem to be in some sense contrary to the purpose of Christianity, that the purpose of Christianity was to give people an
assurance that they were accepted by God if they had the
right attitude. I would agree with that, but it's quite possible that we have got the notion of "right attitude" wrong after 2,000 years. I would also like to ask the fundamental question:
Just who do we think we are? I'm thinking most of us don't really know ourselves well enough to know who is being addressed here.
What an interesting question to ask!!! The notion of "forgiveness" has become quite a bit of a cliche, to the point that the philosophy of "forgiveness" in Christianity has become all but meaningless. That is to be expected, as people have a general distrust of philosophy: philosophy and ideology can be used to manipulate people. People don't like being manipulated.
There is one aspect where we may have got it wrong: we think God was making an offer for
everyone (universal) rather than a
specific group of people. (Once again:
Just who do we think we are?)
I'd like, therefore to introduce a slightly different concept:
vindication. The people Jesus came to assure was
not specifically people "needing forgiveness," but people needing vindication. It is commonly said that Christianity is about
redemption, but if we read the stories of Matthew, Zaccheus and Mary Magdalene, they
weren't redeemed. Instead, they were
vindicated.
Matthew, Zaccheus and Mary Magdalene were social outcasts, social misfits, social aliens. They were rejected and despised by society. They wanted to be accepted for who they were as people, and they believed that some God out there would accept them. They believed that Jesus was a man who spoke on behalf of this God. So they were thus drawn to Jesus. It was not God who couldn't accept them, but society. Society despised them. Society could not accept them. Society had alienated them. Society could not forgive what they had done. For God, there was nothing to forgive. God welcomed them.
If vindication, rather than redemption is the main thrust of Christianity, this has quite a few implications. Most of the Christian world today believes in redemption rather than vindication. (It is no wonder that people often find Christianity insulting as, by tradition and convention, it claims that everyone needs redemption.)
Matthew, Zaccheus and Mary Magdalene were victims of society. Society didn't understand them and had persecuted them. They didn't deserve that treatment. Yes, from the point of view of society, they had done controversial and "immoral" things, but morality wasn't the most important thing to God. What God saw was a bunch of people who didn't deserve such hatred, condemnation and rejection. From a "natural justice" point of view, God would treat these people more favourably than the others. God would give those needing vindication, love and acceptance with greater precedence. God saw the world upside-down. This is perhaps where the famous saying "those who are first will be last" comes from.
I think we are all, to some extent, victims of society, but at a different extent than others. Sometimes we can become so proud of who we are, and overlook our dark side. We neglect all the times that we have hurt and victimised others. When we realise the injustice we have committed, we transition into a state of humility, which could well be called "redemption."
At different points in our lives we are persecutors and oppressors and other times we are victims. But while we may be "redeemed" at some point, we may revert back to the position of "persecutor" and "oppressor" without an intervening phase of "victim." That makes the redemption phase meaningless because we are never punished for our injustices. In that position we have no need for vindication because we haven't suffered for our crimes.
Redemption isn't invalid, but vindication, I believe is important. Persecution by others is what makes us realise how inadequate, depraved, self-absorbed, narcissistic or arrogant we have become. What I disagree with in the contemporary philosophy of "forgiveness" is that everyone is depicted as "equal" in terms of their need of "forgiveness" and that God treats everyone the same. We all go through phases of redemption and needs of vindication with varying intensities.
There may therefore be no "universal certainty" in Christianity on who is accepted or rejected, particularly in today's society. The
assurance and
certainty Jesus gave was to people who had suffered greatly as victims of a society that promoted values that were incompatible with their natural personalities and as a result oppressed and alienated them. The certainty increases with our need for love, acceptance and vindication and our understanding of God. These people felt a greater need for vindication and acceptance by God. No redemption was necessary as the painful treatment they received far outweighed any injustices they would have committed. It was just a relief for those people that there was a God who didn't care what other humans thought.
The story that I see in Christianity, therefore, is where people who have no or little hope are given a free gift. The examples Jesus gave in the Four Gospels are supposed to be ways in which we can personally identify with the pain, suffering and struggles of those alienated by a society that had turned against them.