what you described sounded like community relations or something, thats not intimacy with God, thats man management if I understood you correctly.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23
If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 1 John 4:20
Whoever tries to keep his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life will preserve it. Luke 17:33
For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. Matthew 16:25
For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted. Matthew 23:12
For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." Luke 14:11
"So the last will be first, and the first will be last." Matthew 20:16
But many who are first will be last, and the last first." Mark 10:31
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Matthew 7:1-2
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37
Be under obligation to no one - the only obligation you have is to love one another. Whoever does this has obeyed the Law. Romans 13:8
If you love others, you will never do them wrong; to love, then, is to obey the whole Law. Romans 13:10
So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12
It seems to me that community relations is a big part of being intimate with God. I think a person's relationship with people, society and the world is a reflection of their relationship with God. If you have a place in the kingdom of heaven, you will act like a member of the kingdom. I am not talking about community relations by "man management." I am not talking about a community supported by an organisation, social security, government, state power or statecraft. I am talking about a community supported by faith.
by all means be rational, but spiritual things are spiritual and are understood with our spirits not our intelect IMO.
You may have a point there. You may help others but still not be able to help yourself. One must walk the walk as well as talk the talk. I just think that being rational can be spiritual because you will be in a better position to know the spiritual. If you know and then have the faith to do what you know is right, then being rational can lead to being spiritual. The key, therefore is faith.
It is your faith in "the Way."
I believe it is better to be led by the spirit and have true intimacy with God to hear Gods word to you personally than to say "I am rational"
If people say they are led by the Spirit, they better act like they are. If they are still judgmental, dogmatic, legalistic, arrogant and self-righteous, I have to assume they are not. This is why I believe it is better to say "I am rational" than to say "I am led by the Spirit" and mislead people into thinking you are.
The idea of being led by the Spirit is so attractive that people want to "jump onto the bandwagon" (so to speak) without a complete appreciation of what it means. It's like Simon the Magician asking Peter for the power of the Holy Spirit. I think people need to be cautioned against such a declaration.
Too many people claim to be born again and yet continue to be judgmental, dogmatic, legalistic, arrogant and self-righteous and don't follow the teachings above in Galatians 5:22-23, 1 John 4:20, Luke 17:33, Matthew 16:25, Matthew 23:12, Luke 14:11, Matthew 20:16, Mark 10:31, Matthew 7:1-2, Luke 6:37, Romans 13:8, Romans 13:10 and Matthew 7:12. They act like people who have no faith in "the Way." Being rational and intellectual is just a way of being honest, practical and realistic. It may seem unspiritual, but actually from my point of view, I am actually trying to be spiritual without seeming spiritual.